Let's be honest, SOME women are to blame for the man leaving them a single mom

[The God Poster]

OP tweaking talking about abandoning your kid.

I thought he was talking about the woman’s behavior causing the man to leave making her a single mom In the sense they just aren’t together.

I’ve said on here before both men & women who have children are destined to have a broken home due to lack of communication skills & accountability being the major factors.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

I ain't never been trough the situation so I feel you if my example was stupid, but the point is you gotta try whatever to get your kid. Just read a bit ago that first thing is getting a lawyer so he can guide you through the steps.

Just allowing her to bounce with the kids and not doing nothing can't ever be an option, otherwise that just means you wanted to be a deadbeat. And somehow she knew.

the only thing that might work against most dudes if a baby mother decides to leave is that they haven't legitimized the kid by either marrying the mom before the kid was born (so it's presumed as your kid and you have rights to them) or you go through a legitimization process in court to get rights to the kid which i'm sure most men don't do until shyt hits the fan. so yeah it seems like a self inflicted L to just knock someone up and dont do what you need to do to have parental rights from jump.

#message!