Y’all always gotta derail threads withcho agendas make your own thread you wanna talk about shyt that don’t relate to the subject.
A nikka could say the sky is blue and then y’all nikkas would talk about the clouds. shyt annoying as fukk
I mean, time ain't staying still. Nevermind Millennials, Gen-Z are coming up on their 30's. That whole "ok boomer" era Gen-Z came up with thing was from 2019, nearly 4 years ago.
You only got so much time to really handle your business. Like that breh said in the other thread, too much focus on dumb shyt and folks let it get away from them. Time ain't waiting for anybody. You can blame everybody else, everybody can do that, but you got to look in the mirror as well and ask yourself why you're anymore special than anybody else.
It's never too late, but it gets more difficult the later in the game you put things off without a support system. At the end of the day, it's simple: handle your business then find someone who handles their business. However, that's tricky because finding good relationships get tougher when you get older because the cream of the crop are already all taken, by the other cream of the crop.
It may sound crazy but there are people out there doing real good who knew
exactly what they wanted to be when they were younger. Then they went out there and chased it down: they went to college, met the right like-minded person, got the career they dreamed of, house and kids all before they hit 30 and they going to pass all their values to their kids as well.
The dating scenes don't get flooded by older people, it gets flooded by younger people with younger mentalities and younger customs. Those youngsters will expose how out of touch older folks are. If you trying to catch somebody, it's highly unlikely a younger person entering the dating pool will have the same values as what an older person is looking for. That kid I posted is toxic af, but that also means females from his era dealing with dudes like that are going to absolutely pollute the dating scene in a few years while also influencing the
current people in the dating scene. shyt ain't binary, it's continuous. Doesn't seem like a problem right now, but best believe it will be.