Lets be real here. Can black men afford to be "goofy" and "vulnerable" around black women? Are pawgs built for the cornball brothas?

[GR13]

So you just gotta wait for them girls to get ran thru by thugs for the first quarter of your existence then pick up the leftovers when they are washed

Gotcha

 

[JT-Money]

 

[Bmezy]

I usually jus scrolI and sigh goin thru some of these threads, but I gotta keep it a stack. Y’all not fun no more lol.. I be wanting to really engage and push around some ideas/thoughts because at the root of these silly topics there’s some real shyt that needs to be discussed.. but y’all psycho mfs cloud everything with so much bias.. no context, no nuance.. narrow minded and stubborn.. on top of being slow as hell ..
Jus look at the shyt y’all asking.. come on now

 

[goatmane]

Maybe when you're a teenager, early 20s...25 and older black women by and large ain't on that, you need to fit a persona shyt. The thug shyt dies off after a certain age. They still do want the 6's, but as long as you aren't a total social pariah, you'll be fine with the average black woman. These brothas just chose white. And ain't nothing wrong with that if it's sincere.

I'm a goofy-ass nikka myself, but I started to eat with women by 25, because they stopped caring about that thug shyt. And I'm from one of the most hood hoods in the country lol...

No disrespect breh but this sound like Nice Guys Finish Last

 

[UncleTomFord15]

Edit: Op is right. I get what he's saying now.

 

[Pull Up the Roots]

Another insecurity thread.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

Threads like these let's you know which brehs are broke, ugly, or both

 

[Finesse]

"JUST CANT LEAVE EM ALONE, I TRIED THAT GOOD BOY THANG, BUT THE DOPE BOYS TURN ME ON "

 

[Geek Nasty]

What's with all these ir threads today ?

“…today…”

 

[number21]

Feminists and liberal mindsets don't hang in certian groups/areas. Depending on where I am i my city will determine what type of women I'll come across. A lot of men don't have this option.

I see where you're coming from, but I feel that women in western society are born and raised up in an environment to embrace the mindset I've mentioned.

That leads to the point that the areas that would produce or should have upright women will still be filled with modern women like anywhere else. This leads to all of this just becoming a guessing game to get what you want or being pushed into making adjustments and overlooking warts to have something decent in the modern sense. Like being fine that she already had her "hoe period", that she has a previous child, etc.

 

[Gloxina]

If you want a Black baddie, and you a square nikka you got a lifetime ahead of you, of banging your head against a brick wall and frustration.

All the baddies just gonna say they didn’t catch a “vibe” with you after you already break bread on dates.

Square nikkas gotta eat with the 4’s and below if you deadset on a Black woman.

You a square nikka and want to shoot at that 7-8 and above range—date out.

It is what it is

No!

If you’re talking about women who are entrenched in hood, club, etc culture, you have a point.

Why is it y’all only focus on the attractive BW who are the equivalent of the male stereotypes?

I’ve never dated outside my race or anyone who was a “thug”/stereotype, and most brehs who I’ve dated/approached me were flush or came from well-to-do families.

It’s like y’all skip over the mild-mannered cuties in the burbs
Y’all want the fun girls just like everyone else, but don’t realize what comes with the fun girls

 

[Vandelay]

No disrespect breh but this sound like Nice Guys Finish Last

Lol and that's fair. I'm just saying we all want the wrong things when we're younger. Some chicks get that smutted out change up true...but that's not everyone. I just know I started to glow up after college and seen a lot of other people hit their stride in and after college too. If life stops after school for some people, that's kinda sad.

 

[FrontoBama]

I finally understand now what y’all be meaning when u say “congrats on ur platinum”

 

[The Intergalactic Koala]

Just date out, y’all been making the same threads for the last 7 years about questioning whether to date out or not, due to this or that. Just do it, if you wanna PAWG, PAAG, PAHG, PAMG, PAABG, just do it.

Or PAKB mate:

We even got single mothers with cute Joeys for the step Coli brehs in here:

 

[My Girl is Bow Legged]

where tf yall even find these people lmao

regular ass folks living their lives and now they gotta be subject to coli discourse