Lets define "nice guy and thug" Or do women want responsible men for 200 Alex?

[Neuromancer]

Taken from this thread


https://www.thecoli.com/threads/bla...-they-want-a-thug.720747/page-3#post-34310437

A troll thread by @Prynce that turned serious.

So can we define what a thug is and what a nice guy is? Once and for all. Below I have what I think is meant by both terms. What says the coli?

That's what I'm saying, the whole premise is absolutely absurd. I've been hearing lame nikkas say this shyt for years though.
Not defining what a "good guy" is, nor defining what a "thug" is.

I assume thug isn't the original meaning (Cultist for Kali) but criminals of some kind.

A regular hood dude can probably fall into a few categories. You're smart enough to know that, behavior and not point of origin are being defined with these labels.

I would define a nice guy as this.

Someone who has empathy for others and can use that empathy when needed. Attempting to understand others as he wishes to be understood. They also treat people with courtesy as they would also want to be treated that way.

I defined "thug" before or my definition of it. And let me go a step further and say hardened criminals. Not dudes selling little weed. But those committing violent or crimes that can cause bodily harm or otherwise deprive others.

Can they be one in the same. I'm sure it's possible, but I'm not sure highly empathic people commit criminal acts against others.

Update:

U nikkas should be saying a woman doesn’t want a responsible, hard working, faithful and honest dude

 

[Rhapscallion Démone]

Bad people don't see themselves as bad and good people often don't recognize the good in themselves. Also people are going to like what they like regardless. If ma likes "thugs" she likes "thugs" if she likes "nice guys" she likes "nice guys".

 

[Neuromancer]

Bad people don't see themselves as bad and good people often don't recognize the good in themselves. Also people are going to like what they like regardless. Uf ma likes "thugs" she likes "thugs" if she likes "nice guys" she likes "nice guys".

Very true. Not much can be done.

 

[GreenGhxst]

In this context a nice guy is a pushover that values other people's opinions and emotions over his own

 

[BmoreGorilla]

It’s obvious a lot of the coli got their idea of what a thug is from music. nikkas saw Pac and Jeezy and ran with it


But truth be told the average thug does not have women flocking to them. A lot of the real thugged out dudes are dirt balls who do stick ups and shyt. Grimy nikkas

 

[Clay Puppington]

A nice guy is a man who is nice to a fault
A thug is a career criminal

Anything else OP?

 

[Prynce]

It’s obvious a lot of the coli got their idea of what a thug is from music. nikkas saw Pac and Jeezy and ran with it


But truth be told the average thug does not have women flocking to them. A lot of the real thugged out dudes are dirt balls who do stick ups and shyt. Grimy nikkas

Facts. Thugs get dusty ratchet women.

Thugs are not people you should envy cause half them nikkas don't have shyt and they don't get women worth having.

Never saw a legit good woman with a thug

 

[FishNGrits]

In this context a nice guy is a pushover that values other people's opinions and emotions over his own

pretty much this. You can also be a nice guy and not be a p*ssy ass bytch. be kind but stand your fukking ground if you have too.

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

Bad people don't see themselves as bad and good people often don't recognize the good in themselves. Also people are going to like what they like regardless. If ma likes "thugs" she likes "thugs" if she likes "nice guys" she likes "nice guys".

There is the concept of a nice "thug", from my experience. Dudes who like to be perceived a certain way 'in the streets', but at home or in their personal lives- they have those intrinsic "nice guy" qualities. There's layers to this - a multifaceted man with a multi-dimensional personality.

 

[SPACE IS FAKE]

I’m a thug ama

 

[Dad]

My definition of a nice guy is putting on a front or acting a specific way in order to get p*ssy. Nothing you do is genuine. A thug is not giving a fukk how you feel.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

Facts. Thugs get dusty ratchet women.

Thugs are not people you should envy cause half them nikkas don't have shyt and they don't get women worth having.

Never saw a legit good woman with a thug

That’s why i laugh when nikkas talk about all the women want thugs. I knew some real thugged out cats growing up. These dudes weren’t all super masculine alpha males like nikka think. Most of these dudes had some real mental and emotional issues. Not all street nikkas are thugs. Trust and believe these coli nikkas don’t want the type of chicks they got. None of them look good.

 

[KneeGrow.]

"Nice"=/="Good"

 

[Cynical Thoughts]

I’m here to see how certain black people spin this thug definition.

Outta be entertaining.

 

[King Poetic]

Let me tell u nikkas once again

Can u Stopped saying a woman wants a thug and not nice guys...

A thug can be a nice dude to that particular woman he’s with..

U nikkas should be saying a woman doesn’t want a responsible, hard working, faithful and honest dude and stopped that nice guy vs thug shyt

Hell many nice guys turns out to be psychos themselves