Why are you eager to marry someone that just graduated high school?
Why can't you find someone around your age to marry?
Its not dumb most people marry within their age group mostly because people actually want things in common with their partners. You don't solely marry someone for those traits either you also need to have a connection.No one said anything about eager.
But want is the difference or big deal?
Men have been marrying younger women since the beginning of humanity. This marry your own age is new and dumb to be honest.