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Have you cheated?

Would you cheat?

Your stance on cheating?


One of my brehs whose wedding I was in like 4 years ago, I just found out he's cheating on his wife, I've know both of em for like ten years, on one hand I don't want to be a snitch even an anonymous snitch, but on the other hand I'll feel bad if she gets HIV or something cuz hubby was messing around.

What would you do brehs? Look the other way?
 

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Yes.

Yes.

It's not alright but shyt happens and will continue to. Spouses can't be trusted as I've been on both sides of the issue. I see married women at my job fukking with co-workers on the regular. It's nothing.
 

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Have you cheated?

Would you cheat?

Your stance on cheating?


One of my brehs whose wedding I was in like 4 years ago, I just found out he's cheating on his wife, I've know both of em for like ten years, on one hand I don't want to be a snitch even an anonymous snitch, but on the other hand I'll feel bad if she gets HIV or something cuz hubby was messing around.

What would you do brehs? Look the other way?

If he's your friend you should be able to sit him down and have a real discussion with him on why he's doing the shyt. But above and beyond that, you gotta ask him if he's using protection if your really concerned about the well being of his wifes health and take the nikkas answer at face value, if he says he is, then you drop it, its his life to mess up not yours. If he's not, then explain to him why you think thats way beyond fukked up and that if hes gonna cheat he should at least wrap it up. If he acts up tell him you don't feel comfortable knowing that he might give his WIFE a fukking STD that could be mild, or may kill her. At that point, regardless of if he actually will or not, if he's your boy he should respect you enough to heed your advice and/or lie to you and say he will start putting jimmy hats on. Kinda had a situation like this with my boy, although I'm the one thats married and he was my best man, but hes foul with the females sometimes :scusthov: and I gotta check him on it. I got no problem with men treating women however they want, if the woman is stupid enough to put up with it, but I draw the line at possibly giving your S/o an STD cus your thirsty ass wanted to go raw :ahh: :noah: :hmm:
 

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i have cheated
no i would not do it now

my stance - it is what it is...but it is: not for me
my wife is my homie for lack of a better term...my family. me cheating on her would be akin to stealing from my homeboy or running a con game on my mom or something

about your boy...ultimately its out of your hands, and not your business. but what i would do is drop feedback on him when appropriate...like yo out of love breh, thats not cool. if he wants to brag and talk about it to you about it, like...i dont really want to hear that breh. im not feeling it.
 

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Have you cheated?

Would you cheat?

Your stance on cheating?


One of my brehs whose wedding I was in like 4 years ago, I just found out he's cheating on his wife, I've know both of em for like ten years, on one hand I don't want to be a snitch even an anonymous snitch, but on the other hand I'll feel bad if she gets HIV or something cuz hubby was messing around.

What would you do brehs? Look the other way?

:damn: wtf mayne? stay outta it... dont be a snitch

if thats ur mans just holla at him on some grown shyt and keep it movin. if she gets hiv? got damn u must think your "friend" is a scumbag​
 

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Have you cheated?
Technically yes
Would you cheat?
Not in the relationship I'm in now
Your stance on cheating?

I've been cheated on and cheated. I was cheated on cuz I didn't give the bytch attn:noah:

I cheated on a bytch cuz shyt was drifting apart. Cheating is wrong. If you want to pull some foul shyt you should officially end it
 

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Never cheated.
Never will cheat.

I think cheaters are disgusting, If you want to have multiple partners then do that but don't drag someone into your lifestyle without telling them first.

I would say something because I would want someone to tell me.
 

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Have you cheated?

Would you cheat?

Your stance on cheating?


One of my brehs whose wedding I was in like 4 years ago, I just found out he's cheating on his wife, I've know both of em for like ten years, on one hand I don't want to be a snitch even an anonymous snitch, but on the other hand I'll feel bad if she gets HIV or something cuz hubby was messing around.

What would you do brehs? Look the other way?

no.

i don't think so.

i don't condone it. even if it was me, i would accept the same punishment i would dish out...

have you talked to the guy about it? that would be my first step...
 

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Have never cheated.
Would never cheat under any circumstance.
My stance is that cheating is 100% unacceptable and completely voids any monogamous relationship.
The only exception to this being if you have been in a long marriage with young children and your spouse has completely let themselves go or is permanently withdrawing sex, and you know that wouldn't real care if you got off with someone else.
But yea cheating is completely wrong and ive lost a ton of respect for those i know who have personally done it.

Take to your man. Make sure he knows what he doing is wrong.
 

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I have cheated in the past and I've been cheated on. I know people now who are currently cheating on their spouses. I feel like it's not my place to say this is wrong and all that because they're grown. They know what they're doing. If they choose to tell me I'm not offering any advice except be careful and stay safe. Other than that, YOLO!!!!!
 
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