Level Up 2016: How to Build Irrational and Impenetrable Confidence

PeridotPuss

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1. Accept everything that's "wrong" with you right now. Any dysfunction, failure or flaw is acceptable to you. Physical or personality related, doesn't matter. Mentally reject everyone who speaks negatively against you. Reject their negative thoughts. You have no obligation to be perfect. None.

2. Never lie. Live by your honor code. You who are and you made the choices you made. Stand by them. Lying is a symptom of fear or weakness. You do not embody either. People will either accept or reject your choices, you will survive either way.

3. Be prepared to face any and every consequence or negative situation. You can beat them all. You will never lose.

4. Most people do not care about you. Most people do not care about you to like or dislike you. Whether people like or dislike you, it cannot be controlled or changed. Do not ever act on approval seeking impulses. Learn to trust your own opinion.

5. Seek change. Invite ideas, experiences and people that are new into your life. To believe you are incredible you have to see yourself excel and shine in all environments. Push yourself. You are unstoppable.
 

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That shyt about approval is spot on


I have trouble making friends because I've had bad experiences in college with trying to talk to people and getting rejected/ignored. Those moments crushed my self esteem and I haven't fully recovered:mjcry:


Forcing someone to like you or find you interesting is impossible. The few people I've met and have actually clicked with happened on its own with me not having to act different than who I am
 

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"You will survive either way". I think thats what most people dont understand. Whether its taking a risk at starting your own business or approaching a random female, people dont look at life that way. Stop being scared and do it!!!! You'll survive!!!

I know its easier said than done, but the people who are the most successful are also the ones who are not afraid to take risks. They realize that "you will survive either way"


Good shyt OP
 
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