Life is meaningless for people who have no real purpose

[JudgeJoeForilla]

This is true...

Sometimes I like to tell myself life is meaningless overall because it makes me feel better about being a loser but when I look at things realistically I can't deny the fact that a lot of other people in this world have a purpose, they have something that makes their lives worth while, and the fact is it isn't the world it's just me.

So after 22 years that's right over two decades of having no real purpose goal or motivation to become anything in life I'm finally ready to accept the fact that I may just be a loss cause. Doe anyone else feel this way? I just can't think of any reason to go on at this point, I've fukked up so many opportunities to make something of myself I just feel like a waste of space oxygen and food.

 

[Remote]

Welp,

Here's the thing...
It's your life so you get to choose your purpose. And if your purpose is to not do shyt, well...uh...whatever.



You shouldn't look at wasted opportunities. At least, you shouldn't dwell on them.
Make more goals and work to achieve them...no matter how small they are.
That's where meaning and happiness will come from.

 

[mannyrs13]

Some people don't find their purpose until their fifties, some may not find it at all. But that don't mean you gotta give up. Everyone has a purpose for being here. Whether it's for yourself or someone else. Keep searching.

 

[Tunez]

That's some real shyt

 

[Koba St]

Are you 22?

 

[AlainLocke]

This is true...

Sometimes I like to tell myself life is meaningless overall because it makes me feel better about being a loser but when I look at things realistically I can't deny the fact that a lot of other people in this world have a purpose, they have something that makes their lives worth while, and the fact is it isn't the world it's just me.

So after 22 years that's right over two decades of having no real purpose goal or motivation to become anything in life I'm finally ready to accept the fact that I may just be a loss cause. Doe anyone else feel this way? I just can't think of any reason to go on at this point, I've fukked up so many opportunities to make something of myself I just feel like a waste of space oxygen and food.

There is no point in life...

Like all anybody and every living thing is...is a product of randomness...

All you are is 1 in 8 billion fertilized eggs...only reason you exist is because your daddy nutted in your momma.

And guess what? For many people to find purpose in their lives, to take a break from the dull monotony of routine which keeps society going...

Men go find someone to nut in and women go find someone to nut in them....

And then they go...."Look we have purpose now, I'ma live for this baby..."

And the cycle continues. People go fukk and subject their children to this existence because "they need a purpose." On top of that these same motherfukkers called parents got the nerve to demand the child obeys them...when the parents actually owe the child everything.

They need a reason to get up in the morning. They need to have the status of a mother or a father. They need to have the status of wife or husband and etc. They'll get a religion. And they'll change their life. They'll get career and work all the fukking time.

And supposedly they have something worthwhile now.

There is no grand scheme. Most of the shyt we do is silly and mundane. Most of life is charted out and planned for us even before we are born by someone else...through centuries of breeding, tradition and institutionalized power.

So Ima enjoy myself...before I die and I'll gladly die knowing I didn't bring no kid here to suffer and eventually die. I didn't tie anybody down to me, restricting their freedom through marriage or some silly relationship status.

My sole purpose is to be me and only me. My only goal is to do whatever the fukk I wanna do, whenever I wanna do it, to the best of my ability.

Don't worry about a grand purpose, people that do are crazy or stupid or both.

 

[Rawtid]

Life is pretty trash in general. That's why you have to create goals and shyt to keep your focus. I wish I knew what I was passionate about and really liked doing. That would make it easier too.

 

[Pool_Shark]

I don't think there is a purpose. It's just your turn to come out of the background, enjoy the ride. You won't get another for a long ass time.

 

[Rozay Oro]

Life is pretty trash in general. That's why you have to create goals and shyt to keep your focus. I wish I knew what I was passionate about and really liked doing. That would make it easier too.

Sit down with pen and paper.
Write any question you'd like on the top
In this case "If I could do anything I wanted for a living what would it be?"
Now write every possible answer that fits that question if you had nothing holding you back. Now after that choose a few or the one you like the most. Now dedicate a new sheet to one of them and write at the top.
"If I could become ______ what are the possible routes?" Or "If I could make a living making _______ what are the things it would take?"
Again you give every possible answer regardless how hard or far fetched it seems.
Anyways by the end of this. You should find anything that is truly rewarding comes with some substantial fee that isn't always just money. It sounds silly but you'd be amazed how more focus and organized ideas come out opposed trying to brainstorm in your head and letting doubt come thru.

 

[Rawtid]

Sit down with pen and paper.
Write any question you'd like on the top
In this case "If I could do anything I wanted for a living what would it be?"
Now write every possible answer that fits that question if you had nothing holding you back. Now after that choose a few or the one you like the most. Now dedicate a new sheet to one of them and write at the top.
"If I could become ______ what are the possible routes?" Or "If I could make a living making _______ what are the things it would take?"
Again you give every possible answer regardless how hard or far fetched it seems.
Anyways by the end of this. You should find anything that is truly rewarding comes with some substantial fee that isn't always just money. It sounds silly but you'd be amazed how more focus and organized ideas come out opposed trying to brainstorm in your head and letting doubt come thru.

Thank you!! I did something similar a while back and the one thing I would want to do for a living (own a skating rink), is on my long term goal list. Since most of my goals are financial, I haven't narrowed down a way I would like to make money to achieve them, just as long as I make the money. I just hope to find a tolerable corporate position that pay some me the money I want. I do research salary and jobs a lot so I know which skills I need to stay relevant. I feel if I try enough things eventually, something will stick.

 

[Fillerguy]

Water is wet to people who are it.

 

[Prince Mongo]

If you're truly a lost cause and you truly don't understand your purpose of being on Earth, you should kill yourself, and I'm being as serious as I possibly could be. Do you believe in God? I do, and his judgement is the only reason I fear dying. If I didn't have a passion for my art or a belief in God, I'd feel the same way you do, and I'd kill myself, just the honest truth

However, if you believe in God, than you'd have to believe that you were born with purpose, therefore everything you do has meaning. Even you contemplating the purpose of your life has greater meaning

 

[666 ReVeNGe 666]

My purpose is to be happy and experience as much as I can while living.

 

[Trapperman Dave]

This is true...

Sometimes I like to tell myself life is meaningless overall because it makes me feel better about being a loser but when I look at things realistically I can't deny the fact that a lot of other people in this world have a purpose, they have something that makes their lives worth while, and the fact is it isn't the world it's just me.

So after 22 years that's right over two decades of having no real purpose goal or motivation to become anything in life I'm finally ready to accept the fact that I may just be a loss cause. Doe anyone else feel this way? I just can't think of any reason to go on at this point, I've fukked up so many opportunities to make something of myself I just feel like a waste of space oxygen and food.

A lot of days i feel like that. I guess my purpose in life is to entertain people

 

[4fossa]

I'm 25 and sometimes I feel the same, OP.

My biggest porpuse is actually do my artwork. Besides that: havign great time with friends, girl etc. smoking lots of weed etc.

But sometimes I get that nihilistic feeling, like "why am I doing this?". And I feel like when u a broke ass nikka by default, it's harder to not have this mindset.