TheFemalePerspective
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ain't even know y'all nikkas made a thread about me. But i'm 24 tho, still a virgin, never had a gf, don't have any friends out here, live with my gma, and don't drive. I have anxiety issues so I just keep to myself the majority of the time even though i'm on meds. I just work full time at this grocery store and the money ain't too bad
. Tbh this is the first time a chick has hit me up sexually before so of course I was excited posting about it, plus i was high af typing it. I'm pretty sure i've posted about my situation before on here http://www.thecoli.com/threads/anyone-not-have-any-friends.182031/
but y'all can keep making jokes, idgaf i've heard them all. You gotta admit though, to have any girl fukking with me in my situation has to be some type of win
Have you tried the tapping technique? I don't personally suffer from anxiety issues, but I know people who do. There are many different techniques out there, other than medication, which can help you with your situation. I also believe that you're not helping yourself by going after harlots. I understand you have anxiety issues but that doesn't mean you need to reach for what's at the bottom of the barrel. It's unfortunate that the world is built for extroverts (I'm an introvert at heart, who can wear the extrovert mask when I need to) but we just have to adapt ourselves to society. Of course, that's easier said than done if it doesn't come naturally to you. Oh, and please don't say that to have any girl is a win. You need to work on your self-esteem, my brother. You were created for a purpose. I'm sorry to come across all preachy, but it pains me to read your story. You ARE significant. You ARE beautiful! You ARE one of a kind. You ARE intelligent. YOU are love! And someone will love you, my dear. While you're searching for yourself (we all have our own journey) don't lower your standards. Sex isn't the cheap commodity that society has reduced it to. It's the sacred joining of two souls; two becoming one.
I wish you the very best!
