lol some men are lost, at the barbershop talking about submissive women

[StickStickly]

Decision making based on logic is a a masculine trait... Most men make decisions based on logic. Most women usually make decisions based on how they feel. This is why most men fukk up when they have a conflict with their spouse. They are trying to solve the problem through analyzation instead of just shutting the fukk up and making their feminine spouse happy.

When women analyze a situation and make a decision based on logic. They are tapping into their masculine side. Which is totally fine. Same goes for men who make decisions based off of emotion.

Styles of decisions making are not the only behaviors that separate masculine and feminine.

The key thing is for a good relationship to work you need to find your polar. So if you are the type of dude who doesn't like to make decisions, or exhibit other female traits, it is best to get a women who exhibits masculine behaviors.

This thread to me is just a bunch of guys who enjoy women who are very feminine in their behaviors because it compliments them. They want submissive women because that is their polar.

The people who do not want that, or scoff at it, probably will have to find a different polar that balances with them.

What are you even...many women are logical and rational in their decision making. You're telling me if a woman makes a decision, for example, to cancel a vacation because of unforeseen money issues, she's being masculine? So a woman can't have common sense? Y'all saw the movie Clueless and think all women are like that at every age in life.

 

[YouMadd?]

What are you even...many women are logical and rational in their decision making. You're telling me if a woman makes a decision, for example, to cancel a vacation because of unforeseen money issues, she's being masculine? So a woman can't have common sense? Y'all saw the movie Clueless and think all women are like that at every age in life.

First off, I am a man. 2nd, take a deep breath and re-read my post because I can already tell you are offended by what I said even though we are in agreement.

Ofcourse many women are logical in their decision making, especially women that are alone and HAVE to be. Making decisions on logic are masculine traits. That's just a result of how we are socialized since birth. Most women make decisions based on what "feels right" as opposed to logic, which is okay.

My entire point is that if you are a man or woman, you have to find your polar when trying to keep a relationship healthy.

A masculine man who likes to make decisions and doesn't force his women to make decisions usually finds himself to be attracted to his polar, which is a so called "submissive woman"

A woman who likes to make decisions based on logic and doesn't mind making decisions based off more than just how she feels, has to find a man that balances her out, who will allow her to do that, and doesn't require her to be submissive.

You are too busy being offended by what I said and you probably didn't even read my entire post.

My only point is, doesn't matter your sex, or if you carry more masculine or feminine traits. You just need to find someone who balances you out to have a harmonious relationship.

So if you are with a woman that exhibits very feminine traits and is submissive by western standards, it is important that as a man you don't leave decisions up to her because that throws off the polarity of the relationship and conflict arises.

Now if you are with a women who exhibits these masculine traits, that is great. If the relationship is going to work, then you must be willing to submit to her in order to keep the masculine/feminine polarity of the relationship.

So for myself. I consider to be balanced in my masculine and feminine traits. I don't need a women to submit 100% of the time. I would allow my women to take the lead sometimes. At the same time my masculine side still takes over. So I find that my relationship that work are if I am with a woman with balanced masculine and feminine traits.

 

[Jhoon]

Logic is inherently male? You guys are caricatures of clowns.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Listen to on Juan Epstein podcast. They just reupped it cause his girl was there last week. Last interview before he died and he spends at least 30 mins talking about Brazil and the women.

The science he drops is


But the simplest shyt he said was this

Men in America don't realize they are superman. Because America is krypton. So all the people there are like hey you just like us. But you go to these other countries (go on earth) and you can leap buildings and fly and shoot lasers.

And of all the people superman gets with. Is it spider girl or some type of super woman. Nope. Regular bum ass bytch. He actually calls her Low is Lane. But he's like why? So he can bring her up to his level and impress her. But if he'd marry a super hero, he'd be just a regular man

 

[YouMadd?]

Logic is inherently male? You guys are caricatures of clowns.

No, it isn't inherent. We are socialized that way AFTER birth. The moment that parents put blue clothes on their son and pink on their daughter, the socialization begins... Do a little research before you get offended.

 

[Jhoon]

No, it isn't inherent. We are socialized that way AFTER birth. The moment that parents put blue clothes on their son and pink on their daughter, the socialization begins... Do a little research before you get offended.

Is socialization an euphemism for misallocation of resources. Dude, you're a sexist jack ass. Take your dribble somewhere else.