shyt makes me puke to think about
you're rich, hardworking, successful, respected and admired... and Ayesha has never said anything about Steph having a bad attitude. So you bring so much value to a relationship. And yet... that's worth as much as a woman who is a failed actress
that happened to be pretty. 
shyt's cold. You can be all that as a man and you still don't have that much value.
That's why open marriages are also terrible. You gotta bring a lot of value to get a decent woman to commit to you... you bring excess value... yet, you both get side action. She gets outside dikk. The fukk?
Well, hey, thats why you shouldn't ever be with a woman that rejected you in the past. She's always going to have that vibe of "wow, he's some big NBA star and he's STILL hung up on me? He must not be all that" hanging in her head.