I wouldn’t destroy someone career over cheating , and lord knows I could and still can, but I always felt like that’s not really an even exchange, them cheating on you didn’t destroy your whole life, and on top of that if you take away someone’s livelihood they may take away your life, so before you take it there, make sure you’re ready to deal with what may come back. After the anger wore off and I realized I got a bunch of Florida cops fired professionally because I was wronged personally, I’d leave the state but, it’s Florida so that’s a tough sell anyway.