Love Triangle Confusion... Who Does This Man Love?

[A Woman's Opinion]

Brehs, I need your male opinion on something...



I know a man who married a pretty, southern woman after leaving the army. She is church going, hard working and a good mother. They stayed married for over 20 years.


This same man spent their entire marriage cheating on her with his oldest child's mother. This woman is/was an alcoholic, always between jobs, and has a strained relationship with some of her children.

Over 20 years of cheating. Fist fights between the two women. Crank calls. Arguing. Everything. He still wouldn't divorce his wife for the woman, but he also wouldn't leave the other woman alone for his wife. No matter how much she begged.




Which woman did he love?

 

[DJSmooth]

Both. There are no rules in life that says you can't love two women.

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

Both. There are no rules in life that says you can't love two women.

Of course there aren't rules, but people (mostly women. Lol) say it's not possible for a man to love more than one woman at a time.

You disagree with that?

 

[Ghostface Trillah]

If he loved the first one the second one wouldn't be in the picture

 

[BocaRear]

A man can love more than one woman

 

[The Jewnited States]

Of course there aren't rules, but people (mostly women. Lol) say it's not possible for a man to love more than one woman at a time.

You disagree with that?

I think it's possible to be in love with more than one person at a time, same way it's possible to find true love more than once in a lifetime. Just so happens he found it at the same time.


Also a good chance he's just a scumbag ass muhfukka who wants to have his cake and eat it too

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

If he loved the first one the second one wouldn't be in the picture

Interesting point.

 

[DJSmooth]

Of course there aren't rules, but people (mostly women. Lol) say it's not possible for a man to love more than one woman at a time.

You disagree with that?

I love my mother, family, and friends at the same time. I have loved multiple women in my life before.

Logically loving two woman at the same is something possible in my opinion.

Not something I would attempt to do though, too much damn attention at once

 

[Neuromancer]

Of course there aren't rules, but people (mostly women. Lol) say it's not possible for a man to love more than one woman at a time.

You disagree with that?

There's your issue. Men think differently than women.He can love both.

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

There's your issue. Men think differently than women.He can love both.

Do we?

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Himself. Probably doesn't love either for real.

 

[NoMoreWhiteWoman2020]

A more pressing question is who in this situation loves themselves?

 

[Mr swag]

Brehs, I need your male opinion on something...



I know a man who married a pretty, southern woman after leaving the army. She is church going, hard working and a good mother. They stayed married for over 20 years.


This same man spent their entire marriage cheating on her with his oldest child's mother. This woman is/was an alcoholic, always between jobs, and has a strained relationship with some of her children.

Over 20 years of cheating. Fist fights between the two women. Crank calls. Arguing. Everything. He still wouldn't divorce his wife for the woman, but he also wouldn't leave the other woman alone for his wife. No matter how much she begged.




Which woman did he love?

He loves the drunk but knows that a life with a drunk wouldn't be possible

 

[Boujee Bonita Braxton]

Neither. He obviously loves only his self seeing as though he was too selfish to choose.


Secondly, neither one of those broads love themselves either for even sticking around for that long.

 

[Neuromancer]

Do we?

Case in point.