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This reminds me of a time when I ethered my high school ex to bolivia. We were at the mall and I was already pissed because I hate shopping. Anyways, so we up in Rich's department store in Cumberland mall and we run into two of her friends. So this chick just starts up a conversation with these people when were on our way out to the car. I'm standing there pissed as fukk. She aint introduce me and is wasting our time. She sees me obviously perturbed as says:

"What's your problem nikka? Can't you see me talking? You can wait!"

I take a deep breath and calmly walk away.

As I'm walking away I hear her say

"Ugh. So rude! Girl aint nobody worried about him. Anyway..."


I continue walking out of the department store to the parking lot, hop in my car, and drive 15 minutes to my homeboy's house. She calls me 15 minutes later like

"Hey. Where are you? I'm ready."

I respond with:

Listen bytch... Hear me and hear me GOOD. Don't you ever disrespect me like that ever again in public. I don't know who the fukk you think you are but you need to learn some fukking manners. See, that's why you'll never be shyt. I try to teach you things, but noooo you're a lost cause. You come from a family of worthless people who never amounted to anything, don't appreciate anything, and you will continue the tradition. Just like your lazy ass mom who doesn't work and sits at home all day collecting govt checks. I don't even know why I date your ass anyway because you're clearly beneath me. You aint shyt. Just another worthless whore like your sister

The whole time I'm saying this I can hear her friends in the background like "Damn!" :damn: :huhldup::wow2: You know how when someone is talking loud on the other end of a cell phone and you can hear it? Well it was like that.

She starts sobbing and murmurs "Can you please come pick me up?"

I went and picked her up (cuz I felt bad) and she cried the whole way home. I'm talking that deep soul hurting cry.

I sat in the drivers seat like :smugbiden: She was blown cuz I'm usually a quiet guy.

To this day I've never blacked out on a chick like that. I'm afraid of what I'm capable of when pushed.

I bet the stupid broad probably had it on speaker trying to front off to her friends like you were a simp or something. That shyt backfired on her like a MF.
 

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Haven't read through the entire thread, but upon reading the title I was reminded of the saying:

"For you to insult me, I must first value your opinion"

If you're in a relationship with a female in which you love and feel the need to make her cry during an argument instead of being assertive to prove your point :smh: immaturity at it's best!

Secondly, if you're not an individual whose opinion she should value, realistically you're not the one making her cry it's a lack of self esteem on her behalf.

Often times when we hurts others we say aloud/verbalize what they secretly think about themselves, hoping no one else would notice.
 

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"look this isnt about me and my ex going to dinner, its about your insecurity because every man in your life betrays you. At some point you have to ask....why is no man loyal to me...? What is it about me? I mean...you dont even talk to your father...." :ohhh:

I am a phenomenal arguer

Her: you a stupid, ignorant ugly nikka I fukkin hate you

Me: chill

Her : tell your bytch ass fat ass Momma to chill

Me: I see why you got raped

Her: sits there ballin for the rest of the night

Told a chick that I wasn't the one that molested her,she crumbled in front of me.

shyt still makes me feel bad.I can't do stuff like that anymore,guess I grew up.

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in general, they age so horribly, though.
I have never seen the dark skinned't variety in the go.
Maybe you could hook me up with where to find a cultured dark skinned't female Latina, that is compliant.
As I do not think they make those in Chicago.


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She's Honduran,but her dad is black Honduran,so she looks mixxed,so I ain't worried bout her aging bad,plus she 5 years younger then me :smugdraper: her fam raised her in that stae of mind,to respect the men in her life,shyt,wen I go over,I sit down,don't even move,she serve me,refill my drink,and watch as I eat n make sure I'm being served,tellin you,Spanish bytches :salute:
 

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Scroll up. I already answered this.



Nah....i read that.
Which did not suffice as a detailed enough answer.
I need the full story on that,...
Of course with the names withheld to protect the guilty.
Yet and still,....the full story should be told.

so, I can say;
Nonya went through that,...
So we wouldn't have to go through that.


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This reminds me of a time when I ethered my high school ex to bolivia. We were at the mall and I was already pissed because I hate shopping.
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Listen bytch... Hear me and hear me GOOD. Don't you ever disrespect me like that ever again in public. I don't know who the fukk you think you are but you need to learn some fukking manners. See, that's why you'll never be shyt. I try to teach you things, but noooo you're a lost cause. You come from a family of worthless people who never amounted to anything, don't appreciate anything, and you will continue the tradition. Just like your lazy ass mom who doesn't work and sits at home all day collecting govt checks. I don't even know why I date your ass anyway because you're clearly beneath me. You aint shyt. Just another worthless whore like your sister.


You did not stay on topic (addressing her disrespect of you in public, the wasted time, your hatred of shopping, how you felt when she dismissed you, etc).

You resorted to personal attacks. The tactic is emotionally abusive, and it induces HATRED instead of respect.

You probably didn't value the relationship much anyway, but it is best to stay on topic when resolving conflicts between loved ones/valued friends.
 

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You did not stay on topic (addressing her disrespect of you in public, the wasted time, your hatred of shopping, how you felt when she dismissed you, etc).

You resorted to personal attacks. The tactic is emotionally abusive, and it induces HATRED instead of respect.

You probably didn't value the relationship much anyway, but it is best to stay on topic when resolving conflicts between loved ones/valued friends.

lol. One of the first things I said was "Dont you ever disrespect me in public like that again."

but whatever, that was high school. These days, I...

1. wouldnt be with a girl who would do that.
2. would have handled it differently.

Nowadays when I make women cry its completely due to my perceived indifference to the situation. Not cuz I'm yelling or taking personal attacks.
 
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This thread was CLASSIC :laff:

That one dude talkin' about how his bytch was tryna start an argument with him and he hit her with the "no wonder you got raped"....

:dead: :deadrose: :deadmanny:
 
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