man , how do u deal with ur gf and her guy friends

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Lesson you'll learn, not all cats are built the same.

Even if I were still single, I personally wouldn't try anything with my female friends if they got a boyfriend.

Truth be told, a lot of people feel the same way. Especially when they just come out and say it straight up that they're not into their friendship for those reasons.

That being said, a lot of cats don't follow the same principles. If they throwing shade at you when you chill or don't even bother to get to know you nor are they open to even if you try to be cool with them, that's a red flag. That's shyt's just beyond lame personally for plenty of reasons. Those are the ones to watch out for.

End of the day though, chances are almost any girl will have friends of all types. As some pointed out some will straight up lie too that cool with you, just to really make their move. If you guys are really serious you might get a long fine with her friends that will genuinely be cool with you though, to the point where they'll have your back even if any of their other friends step out of line.
 

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And he doesn't invite you along, as the gf? You'll be okay with that? :mjlol:
Yeah. I dont expect him to hang around me 24/7 unless we're married. Im not a jealous person tbh. Like i said before, if he wants to cheat, hes gonna find a way even if he didnt hang around his home girl(s).

unlike some other people. I refuse to let myself get stressed over the petty shyt in a relationship.
 

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Any chick I get serious and committed with has to cut off regular contact with guy friends. If she's not with it, she's not wifeable. If she sneaks and does it behind my back and covers her tracks well enough then :yeshrug:
And how many girl homies do you have are you goibg to do the same? Or does that only apply to her?
 

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This is the price you pay for having a bad chick, breh. If she bad she's gonna have a lot of guy "friends" who all want to bang her on the low behind your back, or just outright steal your chick from you. And they're gonna try...a lot. If you act phased by this, your chick could get mad that you don't trust her or that you're insecure and leave you; if you don't act phased by this, your chick could get mad that you don't care enough or you're cheating and leave you.

Mirror her, breh. Get a bunch of bad chicks in your life who are your "friends." Go hang out with these "friends" when she goes to hangout with her "friends." Tell your girl the same shyt she tells you when she goes to hang out with these guy "friends" of hers. And just hope it works out.

It is what it is, breh.
This is what it comes down to. If u got a bytch who got a lot of nikkas on her jock, u better have some bytches on your dikk.. balance of power
 

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Seeing as to how one of my best friends is a female -- and I don't see myself cutting her out of my life -- I'm not in the business of demanding such a thing from my GF.

Simply put, we're grown ass people who ought to understand the concept of, know and respect the boundaries we set in this regard. Cross that shyt and it's bushes. That's it.
 
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