Man says he doesn’t want to date woman with teenage daughters. Content creator says it’s cos he’s a perv.

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The video isn’t available for me; what are they about? Just a synopsis would be great if possible. Thanks
The father was accused by his ex-wife, of molesting their physical adult daughters when they were very young. The family is on Iyanla to settle matters with a lie detector test. The father passsed and the mother failed and refused to apologize to her distraught daughters and half heartedly apologized to him, and he rejected the apology. She didn’t even want to take responsibility for her lies.
 

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Straight away saying he's a perv for not dating women with teenage kids is a bit crazy.

We all know it depends; some kids don't like random people in the house when their mom/dad is dating. I'm sure some people here can understand how they feel.

Even if the person they're dating is keeping quiet and not keeping distance the kids could still be rude and aggressive. Just comes with the territory.

On the flip side as well, if someone accuses you of sexual/molestation, we all know its INCREDIBLY difficult if the person accusing you is even slightly credible, it happens a lot so people will automatically gravitate to its probably true and that guy is fukked, socially. Again, thinking I won't date a women just because of this possibility is still crazy, not everyone is a POS.
 

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The father was accused by his ex-wife, of molesting their physical adult daughters when they were very young. The family is on Iyanla to settle matters with a lie detector test. The father passsed and the mother failed and refused to apologize to her distraught daughters and half heartedly apologized to him, and he rejected the apology. She didn’t even want to take responsibility for her lies.
Thanks I remember this video. Very sad story.
 

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I had a gf that had a couple young 20s daughters.

I saw them all naked at some point. Just dumb shyt like them walking from the bathroom to their room after a bath.

She also had young nieces and family friends that would frequent the crib. Everytime they would say some shyt like "we gonna run to the store. Watch these two preteen girls while we gone" I would be like "no possible way. Take them with you or take me with you"

Before you JBO Brehs start with the bs, it was cause I will not ever put myself in a position where someone can accuse me of anything like that. I never ride around dirty any longer than it takes to run the weed to the crib, I never drive drunk anymore, and I never lend money I can't afford to just give away.

SOHH I get it. I must admit I didn't watch the vid.
 

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I’m married with two daughters ages 5 and 2. Of the Wife and I were to break up, no man would enter my ex wife’s home while our daughters are there. That’s it.

We intentionally chose to bring these children into the world and will protect them at all costs. On the flip side, I wouldn’t intentionally date a woman with children.

I’m not on no blended family shyt. We entertain each other outside of our homes, maybe some phone and text conversations, and hotels if children are at home. It’s not that hard. If you are juggling 4-7 women it’s easy to get your needs met.

Now if you are seriously looking for a partner, I don’t know what to tell you.
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I believe there’s a certain age where being step daddy is okay. 7 is probably the cut off. Even then, I would hope the father is in the child/children’s life.

Sex equals babies at the end of the day. It’s your job to protect your children. You don’t get to have fun and start another relationship exposing these children to new people. Make it work with your child’s parent or don’t bring any into the world.

Men protect your seed and women protect your egg.
 

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I won't say he's reaching because I know someone who was in a situation where the dad tried to manipulate his daughter into saying she was sexually assaulted by her mom's new BF, but I think buddy in the clip is being too precautious.
 

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Anyone who has dealt with someone who has wayward or rebellious kids should understand

It's a very tough position to be in.

They talk crazy to you, what does he do?

Just take it?

Tell their mama?

You on the sidelines when them teens given they mama stress


Any accusation will have credibility (not just physical ones)

Something as small as "I don't like the way he looks at me" can have y'all relationship and the man's world upside down

You can do everything the "right way" and STILL have that Bullshyt thrown your way .

Women are people too and people are infallible.

I understand someone not wanting to deal with certain situations.
 

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My Driver's Ed teacher was wild handsome. It is what it is. :dame: 6'4, chiseled jaw, Greek, and had green eyes. Females teachers would literally play with their hair and blush when talking to breh & the girls -- freshmen, upper classmen, black, white, Asian, and everything in between -- were always trying to flirt with him. He was that dude on campus. :hubie:

He would never go on the road with all females. If there were two females, there was always another male. He also never closed his classroom door if class wasn't in session. He didnt do that because he knew what he might be capable of, he did it to protect himself.
 

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OK so if he is a perv the right decision was made either way

what is her problem?
 

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I’m married with two daughters ages 5 and 2. Of the Wife and I were to break up, no man would enter my ex wife’s home while our daughters are there. That’s it.

We intentionally chose to bring these children into the world and will protect them at all costs. On the flip side, I wouldn’t intentionally date a woman with children.

I’m not on no blended family shyt. We entertain each other outside of our homes, maybe some phone and text conversations, and hotels if children are at home. It’s not that hard. If you are juggling 4-7 women it’s easy to get your needs met.

Now if you are seriously looking for a partner, I don’t know what to tell you.
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I believe there’s a certain age where being step daddy is okay. 7 is probably the cut off. Even then, I would hope the father is in the child/children’s life.

Sex equals babies at the end of the day. It’s your job to protect your children. You don’t get to have fun and start another relationship exposing these children to new people. Make it work with your child’s parent or don’t bring any into the world.

Men protect your seed and women protect your egg.
hate to break it to you but if you ever broke up you'd realize you have no control over her decisions. I've seen it happen too many times.
 

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Id only date a single mom if she was that fine, if I was an old ass nikka and if her kids were out the house. All conditions must apply at the same time, there is no one with out the others or two without the other.
 
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