Lol. You don’t know anything about women if you believe this. They will ALL take offense to this. It’s like a prenup, yes if everything works out then there’s nothing to fear but women view it as you saying you don’t trust them.
And what’s this blood test y’all talking about? I haven’t heard of anyone doing a paternity test pre-birth in real life. And I’m sure it’s expensive af. Let me find out Coli nikkas over here talking about things they won’t actually do again.
And I say this as someone who is only intending to impregnate my wife and will be getting that cotton swab test on the sly for peace of mind.
I say “good women would understand” because that’s what it takes.
An irrational woman would get angry and would stay angry because she’s unable to think logically. Just cause she says she’s faithful doesn’t mean she is. She may know she is but u dont. Unlesss of course u got her chained to ur basement 24/7. And the only way for u to know, at least from paternity perspective, is to get that dna test.
Whether or not she’s ok with it is irrelevant. And u need to learn to come to terms with that.
If the kid is yours she’ll be mad for a lil bit but she’ll get over it. But she’ll also know u ain’t the n1gga to play with. Therefore, In case she’s the type to have a wondering eye, she’ll know never to get impregnated by some other dude and try to pass it off as yours.
And also note that the source of the anger coming from these women ain’t necessarily because u don’t trust them, it’s the fact that you’re making it very difficult for them to play u for a fool. A woman already knows if she has it in her to cheat much like most men know if given the chance with the right person they would cheat in a heartbeat.
And if you’re having issues coming to terms with idea of this discussion with ur woman, it might behoove you to think of the alternative. Risk pissing off ur baby momma for a few days, weeks or months or risk being played for a fool for a lifetime.
The choice is yours and yours only.