Marriage Rates Plummet In United States Since 1990

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Social media was the nail in the coffin, these hoes out here with Onlyfans pages thinking they’re deserving of being “wifed” its like the Twilight Zone out here these days.
beyonce just shouted that shyt out ina song. its over lmao
 

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And Im not sure these females even wanna be married, atleast that’s how they portray themselves....
They’ve been eating up male attention and desire since they grew t*ts. They can’t be happy with one man they need constant validation from a lot of guys.
Superman couldn’t keep these hoes from wandering
 

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Esplain pls

A black women with accomplishments could be great.

However alot of them with that mentality are on some, "I got my own, why do i need a man" vs. "I got my own, let me find my match so we can build"
I alot black women have been conditioned believe the "black women are strong we can do it on our own" that goes for raising kids without a father too.

Just cause they have money doesnt mean there mentality has changed from how they were raised, it just confirms the idea that there superwoman ant they dont need there other half
 

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It's been the "me" generation since the 1980s. Every little kid being told how special an individual they are and how their lives should serve them them them. That sort of ultra self-focused attitude, ain't no chance to carry the principles and values it takes to make something work over the long term, or even try.

Hardly anyone gives a shyt about family, community, legacy, or even their own offspring. You see plenty of examples here - it all goes, "me me me". Once men (or women) stop sacrificing for the betterment of their people and their offspring, society pretty much fukked.

Hope the nut was worth it. Probably not, since you never satisfied and always keep chasing a different one the next day anyway.
 

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A black women with accomplishments could be great.

However alot of them with that mentality are on some, "I got my own, why do i need a man" vs. "I got my own, let me find my match so we can build"
I alot black women have been conditioned believe the "black women are strong we can do it on our own" that goes for raising kids without a father too.

Just cause they have money doesnt mean there mentality has changed from how they were raised, it just confirms the idea that there superwoman ant they dont need there other half

Why not find a woman that wants a man then? A lot of people (mostly men) don’t realize that not all women are interested in relationships just like some men aren’t so you gotta move on to the ones that are. Just make educated/successful a requirement for the women you date and go from there. If a woman even hints at being the type you described, move on. Don’t stick around and try to change her.
 

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:manny: This is a by product of the economy. CNN pretty much said unless you’re wealthy or educated you nikkas ain’t getting married.
 

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idk why you wouldn’t marry someone on the same level as you. Makes no sense. That’s why I don’t get why men discourage women from seeking degrees or hate women that highlight their accomplishments as a dating plus. They’re saying they have their own, you have nothing to lose!

That's probably men looking to control women. In 2020, I don't think most men do this. Heck, some men are gold diggers themselves or looking for women to use. I could never get married to a woman who doesn't have their own and needs me financially. We build together.
 

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A black women with accomplishments could be great.

However alot of them with that mentality are on some, "I got my own, why do i need a man" vs. "I got my own, let me find my match so we can build"
I alot black women have been conditioned believe the "black women are strong we can do it on our own" that goes for raising kids without a father too.

Just cause they have money doesnt mean there mentality has changed from how they were raised, it just confirms the idea that there superwoman ant they dont need there other half

Its a slow form of eugenics. All the wealthy/educated black folk that should be marryng each other and having kids, decided not to get married and forego having kids altogether. While poor black folk have kids OOW with numerous partners. Thats a disaster in the making for society. A real life version of "Idiocracy" in the making.
 

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It's been the "me" generation since the 1980s. Every little kid being told how special an individual they are and how their lives should serve them them them. That sort of ultra self-focused attitude, ain't no chance to carry the principles and values it takes to make something work over the long term, or even try.

Hardly anyone gives a shyt about family, community, legacy, or even their own offspring. You see plenty of examples here - it all goes, "me me me". Once men (or women) stop sacrificing for the betterment of their people and their offspring, society pretty much fukked.

Hope the nut was worth it. Probably not, since you never satisfied and always keep chasing a different one the next day anyway.

Yep. The institution of marriage is now only for wealthy people.
 
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