This is what leads to people like Chris Brown running joining bloods as a grown man. Same with Soulja Boy doing the same thing. As well as Drake, running around rapping about spinning blocks despite being a famous teen actor that was already rich before even being 21.
You gotta "keep it real" to generally speaking be considered masculine amongst black women/ black people. You don't see Justin Bieber running around joining the mafia or some shyt so he won't be looked upon as "soft" amongst white women/white people.