Men are afraid of women laughing at them. Women are afraid of men killing them....

[Eternally Jaded]

Crazy world we live in.

Gotta say as much as i've put myself out there, i can say with 100% confidence, that i've never barked on a woman for saying no.
I did once or twice try to clean up after i shot my shot, ala "Oh nah, i wasn't getting at you like that, i legit had a question frfr"... knowing i was lying....but i was way younger then.

For the fellas, honest question.

Have you ever barked on a girl for saying no? Cuz some of ya'll seem REALLY ANGRY with people online, so i can't imagine how ya'll come across in the flesh.

For the women, how many bad experiences have you had? Are there certain groups you expect it more from? Or the flipside, less from?

I'm legit curious, and honestly concerned

 

[HellRell804]

One thing you'll learn about women as you gain more experience is that they project like crazy. A woman walking around thinking a man will kill her for rejecting him most likely has that same quick trigger anger she thinks men have.

Not to say that there aren't crazy men out there but I've never in my life seen a dude spaz when a woman respectfully declines his advance. You see dudes spazzing when the girl actively tries to embarrass him for shooting his shot.

 

[The Prince of All Saiyans]

so women figure they might be killed for laughing at a man?

Not Saiyan this is the most ridiculous reach I have seen but women doing anything for clout this almost makes sense

 

[YamakaSmacker]

Last woman that laughed at me should have been more afraid of me killing her

 

[Umoja]

Women love to exaggerate. If they were affraid of get chalked, they wouldn't be so extra with their rejections and would think twice before treating a simp as a cocktail vending machine.

(Is the name cocktail intentional as in things that go together cock + tail )

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

"The greatest weapon that the colonial powers have used in the past against our people has always been divide-and-conquer. America's strategy is the same strategy as that which was used in the past by the colonial powers: divide and conquer. She plays one Negro leader against the other. She plays one Negro organization against the other. She makes us think we have different objectives, different goals. As soon as one Negro says something, she runs to this Negro and asks him, "What do you think about what he said?""
" REALLY angry black man and angry black woman".. so you say??? "certain groups.... " huh? "Bad experiences???"... I have more bad experiences and disrespect with white people and their kind than I do with any other groups. I guess you are legit concerned enough where my response is supposed to be that I cross over to the other side of the street or clutch my pearls, when a group of black men approaches for fear they may "bark" on me, or be confrontational??

 

[TheDarkCloud]

One thing you'll learn about women as you gain more experience is that they project like crazy. A woman walking around thinking a man will kill her for rejecting him most likely has that same quick trigger anger she thinks men have.

Not to say that there aren't crazy men out there but I've never in my life seen a dude spaz when a woman respectfully declines his advance. You see dudes spazzing when the girl actively tries to embarrass him for shooting his shot.

It has happened. I can't say it is something that happens frequently enough to make this type of assertion but it does happen.

 

[Ghost Utmost]

Men are jerks for the most part

So I don't blame women for having zero trust in their motives

Leave strangers alone. Say hi and if she doesn't seem interested shut up and KIM

 

[Critical Distance]

I agree with the statement in the thread title.

 

[ExodusNirvana]

Only a weak man would spaz if a woman rejected them

Disappointment is normal...but legit anger on the level where you want to hurt em?

Even if he's physically strong, he's mentally WEAK which in of itself makes him 100% weak.

Because if a man is not physically strong that's one thing. shyt we're human, evolution has granted us a developed mind in order to protect ourselves from external threats. But if a man is mentally weak? Shiiiiiiieeeet....

 

[StarGirl]

One thing you'll learn about women as you gain more experience is that they project like crazy. A woman walking around thinking a man will kill her for rejecting him most likely has that same quick trigger anger she thinks men have.

Not to say that there aren't crazy men out there but I've never in my life seen a dude spaz when a woman respectfully declines his advance. You see dudes spazzing when the girl actively tries to embarrass him for shooting his shot.

No. Just no.

I live in NYC. You see women getting yelled at everyday for saying no.

 

[AsTheWorldBurns]

I'm gonna keep preaching those conflict resolution skills. Some women don't know how to decline a man without being over the top rude/aggressive. Some men don't know how to accept rejection without chewing a female out.

Both parties are placed in an uncomfortable situation and don't know how to maneuver outside of using anger to navigate their communications.

 

[Dr. Acula]

Louis C.K. bit.

 

[Ya' Cousin Cleon]

I did the corny thing of when you with your boys and she turn one of ya guys down and we all end up yelling/cursing her out

not proud of it. But I was 17

 

[ignorethis]

Like another poster said.

I understand the logic behind that saying, but it honestly seems like an exaggeration.

It's either a exaggeration or men are just less fearful than women, because I can't think of too many times where I've really been in fear for my life and I've been in some shyt.