Men Are Not Afraid Of "Strong Women"

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I disagree completely.

Meeting a woman who has a house, a Masters degree, and generally speaking has her shyt together would definitely place her in a higher tier than her peers who don't have any of that.

But I've been told I'm unique in this way.
Yeah, so you don't agree with him. You're just explaining that it doesn't apply to you.

For me, it isn't something I care for. What he said was on the money, pleasantness. When you have been conditioned to be the provider, there are certain traits you don't value (go figure).
 

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i hate these videos where they group all us men like we are all eating :bryan:

whats a dating pool? a new tiktok or something !? better be happy with what luck throws your way :wow:
 

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Yeah, so you don't agree with him. You're just explaining that it doesn't apply to you.

For me, it isn't something I care for. What he said was on the money, pleasantness. When you have been conditioned to be the provider, there are certain traits you don't value (go figure).

Two physically and compassionately identical women.

One makes $38k. The other makes $171k. They both wanna hang out with you tonight. You can only choose one. Which one you choosing?
 
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It's not that men are afraid of a "strong woman", it's that "strong women" tend to prefer the kinds of Alpha dudes that want a docile broad. One who cooks dinner, does his laundry and clips his toenails.

The strong woman can find a good man, but she needs the kind of dude that she's been conditioned to ignore.

On top of that, if you have all your shyt together, your mindset is not "let's build." You want someone that fits into your existing life and doesn't upset the balance. Basically people do everything and THEN wanna get married like it's icing on the cake.
 

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Two physically and compassionately identical women.

One makes $50k. The other makes $200k. They both wanna hang out with you tonight. You can only choose one. Which one you choosing?
Idiotic response.

Obviously it matters to some degree, the question is how much.

Other variables not being equal, what do you think will be picked?
 

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A lot of times if a dude get with a female that's significantly better off than he is, there's likely going to be some respect issues.

Being well off is great and everything but that secondary to the intangibles that truly matter like attitude, personality, compatibility, looks, etc.
 

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Yeah, so you don't agree with him. You're just explaining that it doesn't apply to you.

For me, it isn't something I care for. What he said was on the money, pleasantness. When you have been conditioned to be the provider, there are certain traits you don't value (go figure).
Most men arent high value men
The math ain't mathing

Most men, including me, just overrate good looks and a nice body
 
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Thanks for playing, breh.
You're not making sense.

You're trying to go for a "gotcha" moment when it doesn't exist. These variables don't exist in a controlled environment.

I.e it is not going to speak of a scenario where all things are but their degree or career.
 
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