Men, having kids young (18-30) vs having kids older (31-50)???

[International Playa]

Turning 40 in a year

A lot of of high school brehs popped up on my FB recently. Its nice to see what brehs from high-school made out of their life so far. Many brehs let themselves go.

Many brehs married with kids, some had kids in their 20s & the kids are teenagers, about to graduate high school. Some brehs just started & got toddlers, few brehs haven't started & got no families, some brehs got babymamas & still running the streets.

What's a good age for a man to have kids?

 

[djthegreat88]

35-40. You should be fully established, matured, and have ability to provide child everything they could possibly need.

 

[Lord_nikon]

this all depends on the status of your career and









MOST important the WOMEN !!!

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choose your destiny!

 

[Peruvian Connect]

Have em soon as ya nuts drop. Waiting is overrated

 

[Robbie3000]

It’s a mind fukk that the physically optimal time to have children for both men and women is in the 20s, but that’s when you are least financially secure and your brain still hasn’t fully formed.

But then I’m seeing people have kids in their 50s, and I’m like damn, statistically you will die when your children are in their 20s. Don’t know about yall, but I was pretty dumb through my 20s. I appreciated my parents wisdom.

 

[Pool_Shark]

Had my kids at 20. Now im 34 still have a whole life of fun ahead of me and they basically watch themselves now

 

[thefloorislava]

I might freeze my sauce , and get in vitro done in my 30s when I’m married. shyt is too expensive now to try raising a family without being established. No way I’m looking down at my own seed and can’t afford tutoring, college expenses, sports equipment etc. Kids need love and guidance but they also need resources.

I hate the birth rate conversation, because the cause is obvious when you look at the job market and underemployment rates for gen z/millennial college grads. Greed fukked this country up man

 

[Maddmike]

I got a daughter that I had at 26, twins at 30 and a 2 year old at 41

 

[BunchePark]

1st @ 21 (360 waves)
2nd @ 29 (still spinning)
3rd @ 33 (thinning)
4th @ 37 (Bald than a muffuka)

 

[shopthatwrecks]

long as it work squirt..shoot the club up leave a body

 

[richaveli83]

Mid 30s. You should be well established in your career or business if self employed. You SHOULD be more mature than you were in your 20s. Being a father is very serious and shouldn't be taken lightly.

 

[2 one 3]

After you’ve had your fun and traveled a bit for sure.

I see both sides. Friends who had kids early like 22 now have their kids in college and out the house

They’re able to enjoy their early 40s and up…

But waiting sometimes you’re more established and mature.

 

[Controversy]

The environment you grew up in should heavily influence your answer

My answer is 31-35, but that's in hindsight

When you're 40+ with toddlers, that's gotta be rough

 

[King Static X]

I'm currently 26 and I couldn't imagine having any kids right now.

Most likely in my 30s is when I'll start.

 

[Belize King]

I got a daughter that I had at 26, twins at 30 and a 2 year old at 41

2 year old an oops baby or you planned for it? My homebody has a 15, 13 and 7 year old. The 7 year old was made after a night at Magic City. Them strippers got him sloppy and got him to slip up in his Wife.

Would have been done in five years.

I have a 6 and 3 year old. I’m about to be forty. I took the scissors and won’t base my pull out game on chance.