Men, having kids young (18-30) vs having kids older (31-50)???

What's the right age for men to have kids

  • 18-25

    Votes: 6 6.1%
  • 26-30

    Votes: 22 22.4%
  • 31-35

    Votes: 35 35.7%
  • 36-40

    Votes: 29 29.6%
  • 41-45

    Votes: 3 3.1%
  • 46-50

    Votes: 3 3.1%

  • Total voters
    98

JerseyFinest!

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I had my kids my son and daughter at 25&26

I think that was the perfect age imo.

I couldn't imagine at 42 still having to deal with daycare, etc.
 

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I was 24 when my kid was born I’m 40 now. I’m much better today yet if i could do it over again I’m not sure I would be a father. Having children can be an overrated and very costly experience.

But to answer the question I’ll say 35-40. So from 18-35 you got enough time to establish yourself make money so you can meet a quality woman. Broke dudes are desperate for the box.
 

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Like others said, when you're ready.

If I had kids before turning 30 I would've been a shyt dad, maybe decent. My girl says I'm being too hard on myself and I'd be a good dad but I know myself. I'm selfish as hell :yeshrug:
 

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Depending on everyone's maturity and circumstances. I had my first son at 30. I sometimes wish i did it earlier when i was 27 - 28. I had my 3rd son at 40 and Its a struggle particularly because I'm very hands on with my kids. Having the energy as you get older isnt easy at all. I wouldn't recommend it. Parenthood is a thankless task and requires an insane amount of selflessness.
 
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