Men of the Coli, what REALLY makes difference when choosing to commit to a girl or not?

[Slimwithafatgirlsappetite]

...OR rather, are men truly random when it comes to commitment?

...is it really mostly about timing and the right girl at the right time or is it something more specific?

I say this because I often hear girls confused as to why a man chose to commit to another woman and not to them, especially when on paper the other girl may have been a ‘better’ catch etc. maybe looks wise, career wise, personality or a combination of all of those things.

OR you’ll see a dude string a woman along for years and not make a commitment and then commit to someone that seems very ‘random’.

Anyway, honest question, what makes a difference to you when choosing to commit or not?

ESPECIALLY if we take out the superficial aspect i.e physical beauty. Beyond that, what is it that makes you commit or not? Is it just the girls vibe, the timing, where you are in your life...a combination of those things?

I’m really interested to know because I feel like this question really mystifies a lot of women, myself included.

 

[MaxPain]

If she has no gag reflex

Then she’ll get wifed

bonus points if she makes me a sandwhich on demand

 

[Slimwithafatgirlsappetite]

Please at least ATTEMPT to take this thread seriously...I’m genuinely curious.

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

Every man is different

 

[skeetsinternal]

I wifed chics with real hair,.... stayed away from Scorpio and Sagittarius bytches....checked if she had good oral hygiene and looked under her toilet seat for piss stains

 

[skeetsinternal]

Please at least ATTEMPT to take this thread seriously...I’m genuinely curious.

I gave my dead ass serious answer

 

[Slimwithafatgirlsappetite]

Every man is different

Elaborate. For you, as a man what makes a difference in whether you’ll commit to one girl over another, if anything, besides the obvious i.e physical attraction?

 

[MaxPain]

I wifed chics with real hair,.... stayed away from Scorpio and Sagittarius bytches....checked if she had good oral hygiene and looked under her toilet seat for piss stains

 

[BaldingSoHard]

For me it's pretty simple. It comes down to whether she annoys me or not and is trustworthy.

80% of women in my age bracket are either insufferably annoying, or liars.

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

Elaborate. For you, as a man what makes a difference in whether you’ll commit to one girl over another, if anything, besides the obvious i.e physical attraction?

Timing; when I met my wife I was ready financially, mentally, ect

Experience; I had been in enough relationships to know our personalities and goals were compatible

 

[skeetsinternal]

Most men find women who gives him peace appealing

 

[Slimwithafatgirlsappetite]

For me it's pretty simple. It comes down to whether she annoys me or not and is trustworthy.

80% of women in my age bracket are either insufferably annoying, or liars.

O.K I don’t think the second part is true, at all but I appreciate the first part of your response. So it’s instinctive basically, got it.

 

[42 Monks]

My level of commitment generally has nothing to do with the woman or what she does for me Seen my exes talk about me at a party and describe me as two different people

I've done good women dirty for no reason other than the fact that I like making my own decisions and I like people who make their own decisions. When those two things link up? Awesome. If they don't? Well, they don't anymore. The minute I feel like dead weight or vice versa I'm looking at 'Why?' and am already checked out.

Thinking back to this one girl who pissed me off more than anything... One day out the blue she said she'd like to leave her grad program and move across the country to be with me.

Lost all respect for her instantly. Even started beating myself up for reading her wrong. I know some other guy would love that shyt and I hope she finds him.

Timing; when I met my wife I was ready financially, mentally, ect

Experience; I had been in enough relationships to know our personalities and goals were compatible

Timing is probably the best way to say it.

 

[mamba]

There is not a magic formula for commitment among men.

Which is why I laugh when I hear women say dumb shyt like “a man should know within X number of months...”

 

[Dwolf]

...OR rather, are men truly random when it comes to commitment?

...is it really mostly about timing and the right girl at the right time or is it something more specific?

I say this because I often hear girls confused as to why a man chose to commit to another woman and not to them, especially when on paper the other girl may have been a ‘better’ catch etc. maybe looks wise, career wise, personality or a combination of all of those things.

OR you’ll see a dude string a woman along for years and not make a commitment and then commit to someone that seems very ‘random’.

Anyway, honest question, what makes a difference to you when choosing to commit or not?

ESPECIALLY if we take out the superficial aspect i.e physical beauty. Beyond that, what is it that makes you commit or not? Is it just the girls vibe, the timing, where you are in your life...a combination of those things?

I’m really interested to know because I feel like this question really mystifies a lot of women, myself included.

More interesting question is whose alias this is