Men regret the sex they missed out on...

[Neuromancer]

Inspired by this post.
Why does it seem like a lot of us regret missed chances even when we're in relationships? I'm not asking why men cheat. I'm asking why a lot of us have feeling that we missed out or are missing out on sex we didn't have?

UPDATE : Is this a biological trait or a societal one?

A funny thing happened. Chillin with a brew at a function thrown by a friend, relaxed and chill browsing the phone and a notification popped up on FB.

This instance said something to me like "check it out sooner than later" u know the feeling...

We have all (mostly) been there:

1. She found you after lookin' since middle school.
2. She wanted to finish what you started. (She's 110% compatible with you vs. 75% with current woman)
3. She is the SAME. BUT she is established, successful and grown.....just like myself, as we imagined as kids.
4. She is FINER than your WIFE.....(Black and Asian 5.9 with a crazy sense of humor and body)......


I'm faithful to my wife... Not only because of her, but because I'm not about that life...

....She wants to meet as adults and laugh and catch up on "old times".....

She misses the belly laughs and my crazy sense of humor that kept her crying... (her words)

Am I reading this with my dikk... should I just tell her to fall back?

Or should I "try" to act like an adult and entertain where this goes to find a place for her as a friend...?.

fukk LIFE...




Coli?








































You get the idea... ( Miracle Watts) I'm not putting her out there like that, but .. This is the closest comparison.

 

[Sex Luthor]

Personally i dont miss things i never had. Maybe people miss the thrill of something new.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

Eh, it's normal to romanticize the path not taken.

If there was a Miracle Watts looking chick that I was 110% compatible with out there trying to pull me away from my girl, I can imagine I'd be conflicted as well.

Note: This perceived-level of compatibility is BS and rose-colored glasses. You are at least partially thinking with your dikk. She's not likely to be better than a woman you chose to spend your life with, she's just bad as fukk and on her best behavior but you will learn that the hard way in time.

 

[Dad]

 

[Grand Eeezus Maxwell]

“The best p*ssy you ever had, is the best p*ssy you never had.”
-Big Daddy Kane

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

I did this once..
Before I got married the second time..
Let’s just say that was some trash p*ssy for serious
I regret hyping her up in my head for all those years
Sometimes it’s better to be ships passing in the night
A person may seem all that..
Until you actually see them..
Up close and raw

 

[King Khufu]

Real talk, shyt wild but I'm missing a couple chicks hardbody right now that I was digging on the low.
I always wanted to smash and cuff them all to myself but my inner God in me refuses to beg for it cause I'm a real nikka despite going through the motions. I'm not missing out!

It just ain't my turn unfortunately.

But just letting you know my options are kept open till then. But the thing is about the possibilities of being with this certain chick keeps me aspired to keep my game tight!

Next time I see her I'm telling her:
"I wanna be yo man" *In Zapp voice

 

[J.E.T.S]

I think about women that I could've smashed too. Especially this one in Chicago. I was in a relationship and I had to leave her spot because my girlfriend at the time was calling me.

I should've stayed and hit. Me and that ex broke up when she cheated. Like wtf...

 

[Kilgore Trout]

I’m still haunted by the ghost of potential p*ssy past

 

[Marco Zen]

Job I had years ago...

There was a new girl working in the dept across from mine.. I remembered her because when I saw her I was like damn she kinda fine .... Cute too..

and she had GREAT PERFECT SHAPED LEGS (Im a leg man)... She looked at me and I just head nod and kept moving. Didn't wanna holla. Especially with her being new and all plus I know a gazillion nikkaz were probably approaching her




So anyway I go about my shyt at work. Days later I didn't see her anymore. Heard she quit.. But the lady who was training her stopped me one day and was like "you remember that girl that was over here few weeks ago? She was going on and on about how fine you are and asking me your name and all"


I was like

 

[Ciggavelli]

Only 1 girl in my past I missed my chance to fukk and regretted it. I guess that’s not too bad

 

[Nymbus]

Mariah

 

[homiedontplaydat]

Just remember that they're somebody's else headache now

The grass always looks greener until ur the person who has to water it

 

[King Khufu]

Hoes gone mad when they don't have my royal stick in 'em. #CrownMe

 

[Crude]

There will always be a cuter face, a phatter azz, a better rack, a nicer figure, a seemingly better personality, etc.

I missed out on a lot of women in my earlier years because I was criminally shy.

A closed mouth doesn't get fed when dealing with women though. Its ironic now that these females be falling in my DMs. Same women seemingly barely noticed me 15 years ago, they talking about I always had a crush on you now that I'm very much married. Where was this energy when I was actually looking for it.