1. I am a woman
Went on a date with 6’5 Nigerian who works in finance. 28. He was born in the states but his parents are from Nigeria. Moderately facially attractive but his height/body definitely make up for it. I already planned on sleeping with him cuz a girl has needs too and his arms are great, I’m shallow idc.
So we went out to eat at a popular Mexican spot. He’s clearly well put together, smart and comes from a stable family. This is good and I am very excited. He said his friend is having a get together the following week and wants to bring me, I said sure I’ll go. I like meeting people. I went, his friends are normal which means he must be normal right? We went to his place and we didn’t fukk unfortunately (bloody reasons) but we messed around. I did tell him I wanted to but next time.
So he wanted to go on another date a few days later, we went to a restaurant in an outlet and we spent most of the day walking around/talking after eating.
This is where I learned he is deep into the incel-like internet world. He started ranting about “women these days” and how the internet has made women feel special and entitled. We are disloyal. We only sleep with men with lots of money. Only the best men can get women. He said he’s lucky he’s tall because women are particularly evil to short men. I mean the man was going OFFFFFFFF.
I’m genuinely confused at this point because this man is definitely above the curve in terms of everything, he can clearly get women (I am assuming), so what’s the beef about? It only hit me later, is he mad I didn’t fukk him that night? Like, was that the trigger?
Anyway, he scared this hoe. I made an excuse to not see him again cuz I thought that rant was scary and unsettling. He sounded like he HATES women. And once he got started he couldn’t stop. It was pretty wild to see because the first couple dates were perfectly normal. I was shocked.
This isn’t the first time I dated someone who mentioned “women these days” and it’s so weird to me that guys do this to women who are ACTIVELY ON DATES WITH THEM. Like are y’all aware how weird and disturbing you sound complaining about women to a woman who has chosen to date you? Please tell me you’re aware of how this looks?
Has any other women experienced this?
Went on a date with 6’5 Nigerian who works in finance. 28. He was born in the states but his parents are from Nigeria. Moderately facially attractive but his height/body definitely make up for it. I already planned on sleeping with him cuz a girl has needs too and his arms are great, I’m shallow idc.
So we went out to eat at a popular Mexican spot. He’s clearly well put together, smart and comes from a stable family. This is good and I am very excited. He said his friend is having a get together the following week and wants to bring me, I said sure I’ll go. I like meeting people. I went, his friends are normal which means he must be normal right? We went to his place and we didn’t fukk unfortunately (bloody reasons) but we messed around. I did tell him I wanted to but next time.
So he wanted to go on another date a few days later, we went to a restaurant in an outlet and we spent most of the day walking around/talking after eating.
This is where I learned he is deep into the incel-like internet world. He started ranting about “women these days” and how the internet has made women feel special and entitled. We are disloyal. We only sleep with men with lots of money. Only the best men can get women. He said he’s lucky he’s tall because women are particularly evil to short men. I mean the man was going OFFFFFFFF.
I’m genuinely confused at this point because this man is definitely above the curve in terms of everything, he can clearly get women (I am assuming), so what’s the beef about? It only hit me later, is he mad I didn’t fukk him that night? Like, was that the trigger?
Anyway, he scared this hoe. I made an excuse to not see him again cuz I thought that rant was scary and unsettling. He sounded like he HATES women. And once he got started he couldn’t stop. It was pretty wild to see because the first couple dates were perfectly normal. I was shocked.
This isn’t the first time I dated someone who mentioned “women these days” and it’s so weird to me that guys do this to women who are ACTIVELY ON DATES WITH THEM. Like are y’all aware how weird and disturbing you sound complaining about women to a woman who has chosen to date you? Please tell me you’re aware of how this looks?
Has any other women experienced this?
I'll let yall nikkas handle this
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