It's not rocket science.
Married women still feel attraction. A lot of them act on it.
But it's worse if it's somebody they see regularly
If your wife cheated on you, it's 99.9% of the time a nikka she works with or an ex.
The shyt Nicole Ari Parker was saying was what a lot of married women feel but are smart enough not to say out loud

Don't take it personal, brehs. She wants to cheat on a nikka that other bytches would gouge her eyes out over.
They tell themselves at first "if I was single"

Then they tell themselves "It's just flirting. I'm just having some fun."

Then that becomes "I might let him touch me, but that's it"

Then you gettin straight neck in a dark parking lot
I've done it. I dont recommend it. I'll leave it at that.
Edit: Most of the reason I did one is because she was SUPER BAD

and I had been lusting after her in my head for years