MenOfTheColi: Your Girl Left You After "Leveling Up/Glowing Up"?

[Giselle]

Has a girl you dated ever left you (or you left her) or began acting different after she lost weight, got a higher paying job than you, got plastic surgery or something and started "feeling herself"?

Ladies, has a male you dated ever left you or began acting different after he got a higher paying job or became wealthy?

Gents and ladies, have you ever left someone after "leveling up"?

If so, tell us about it. You could post stories of friends/family members too.


Thanks!

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This thread was inspired by a situation I know about. The girl lost weight and got plastic surgery, then began posting pics on instagram more. Then she wanted to "take a break" from her husband to find more female friends to go out with and to remember how to date. She clamied it was because she married young (about 25) and needed to "find herself". But I think that's bs and she just thinks she can do better than her husband now because she thinks she looks better and is more confident. Similar to how former "poor" men leave the women they were with after they become wealthy because they think they could get better looking women.

 

[Mad Good Dro]

Have you dated a man period beloved.

-Rose

 

[At30wecashout]

Nah, but I feel for the brehs and brehettes who have gone through it. Thats why I aim to be the one to evolve:letyasoulglow:

 

[Giselle]

Have you dated a man period beloved.

-Rose

Not as an adult (18+). What does that have to do with this thread though?

 

[lowkey0z]

Has a girl you dated ever left you (or you left her) or began acting different after she lost weight, got a higher paying job than you, got plastic surgery or something and started "feeling herself"?

how bytches can feel themselves after stuffing plastic in their titties and asses is beyond me

unless it's after a massive amount of weight loss and the excess skin is unbearable

that "started wearing less and going out more" syndrome is real tho seen one of my homie's bytches leave him because his swag didn't match hers when she got her pay raise

 

[Giselle]

how bytches can feel themselves after stuffing plastic in their titties and asses is beyond me

unless it's after a massive amount of weight loss and the excess skin is unbearable

that "started wearing less and going out more" syndrome is real tho seen one of my homie's bytches leave him because his swag didn't match hers when she got her pay raise

It happens all of the time. Most guys don't care that it's fake. They'll still give the girl attention money and xes. The new plastic body could help her get wealthy males, usually the ones in the entertainment industry. & help her become instagram popular.

 

[Tropical Fantasy]

This was me when I got my job after college
Had to leave the ratchets and hood chicks in the dust and havent looked back since

 

[Mad Good Dro]

Not as an adult (18+). What does that have to do with this thread though?

It was an interesting topic to bring up and i was wondering if you happened to be speaking from experience beloved.

 

[Mowgli]

A fat female that has a man is not with her true potential.

 

[Giselle]

It was an interesting topic to bring up and i was wondering if you happened to be speaking from experience beloved.

Or, you could've read what inspired this thread in the op....

 

[Mad Good Dro]

Or, you could've read what inspired this thread in the op....

Ain't nobody got time to read all dat shyt.

+ For all we know you could have been that girl and just speaking in third person, thats why i asked beloved.

 

[HE_Pennypacker]

Never happened to me, but I don't fukk with people who aren't always trying to improve themselves - because I am. I actually don't understand how someone can just be a drifter

But how do you get an inflated ego after surgery? You haven't even accomplished anything At least if you're getting more degrees, a better job,etc

 

[Vinny Lupton]

Let your girl leave just because she wants to brehs

 

[WaveGang]

She graduated uni, got a job in the city

I was fresh outta jail, a stoner and 17 stone

Now I graduated, doing a masters, got a high paying job. In shape. And she got health problems and don't work.


I kno she kno she fukked up

 

[The Mad Titan]

Once and a possible but I abandoned ship before it got to that point.

I believe in building and supporting your partner. I don't care what it is they do, janitor, manager or CEO.


I also tend to see diamond's in the ruff, anyway one of the worst things is watching a chick you held down start to get attention or learn how to maneuver and then change up.


Ino even want to think about it.


edit: but now she's married to a bum white dude and broke