Michael Eric Dyson said stop criticizing black women with white husbands

[filial_piety]

I personally don't care who they're married to....but the hypocrisy and the amount of guard dogs that surround black women (by both BM and BW) on these issues is spell bounding.

If these were 7 black men being considered with 7 white wives we would be having an entirely different discussion. There would be a concerted, organized effort to keep them out of consideration by black women. It would expand into all of these debate topics (that become very public) about "colorism", white supremacy, and how Black men disrespect their mothers...how they disrespect Harriet Tubman, Rosa Parks and Sojourner Truth...and how (collectively every BM) has been brainwashed.

You wouldn't hear a peep out of a single Black male or black female celebrity defending them--not one.

But Black women do it and everyone (including in the black community--both men and women) say "...who cares, there's a bigger mission ahead of us"...and there's dead silence after that.

absolute insanity imo ...black women have a "privilege" in our community that women in other communities don't when I really think about it

 

[Biscayne]

I'm not trippin off of it. I'm just assuming when you reach the levels of success that they have, I imagine dudes like us aren't well represented. You date what you have access to, what's in your vicinity.

There’s nothing wrong with that. I just wish fools like Dyson would stop speaking for and assuming the reasoning as to why these women chose white. Again, why do we have to philosophize why black women chose white? It can’t just come down to them preferring white features? Does it always have be black men’s fault? Why can’t they just like golden hair and blue eyes?

 

[Rell84shots]

There’s nothing wrong with that. I just wish fools like Dyson would stop speaking for and assuming the reasoning as to why these women chose white. Again, why do we have to philosophize why black women chose white? It can’t just come down to them preferring white features? Does it always have be black men’s fault? Why can’t they just like golden hair and blue eyes?

You answered your own question. 9/10 the reason they chose white is because of white features, but then that would make them self haters which means they would need to admit that they're c00ns. It's even our fault in fantasy worlds as well. Notice that every movie/tv show where BW swirl always has BM looking like complete monsters or just lazy? They always give BW a reason to feel better about dating outside the race.

 

[Rawtid]

Having a white spouse doesn’t matter anymore. People need to do what makes them happy and as a community we aren’t marrying one another. People deserve to be happy.

 

[Rhyme n Tekniq]

Really? That's that bullshyt.

yeah it was a thread on here from a few years back, 2019 or 2020 I believe

dude let all the bytchassness flow through him , nobody asked him a damn thing but he felt like he had a platform to shyt on Malcolm and went on a tirade, not unlike a wack 100 or Funk Master Flex

 

[Rell84shots]

Having a white spouse doesn’t matter anymore. People need to do what makes them happy and as a community we aren’t marrying one another. People deserve to be happy.

Go sit in the corner.

 

[Rawtid]

Go sit in the corner.

Mind your business about who others are dating. Y’all want an authority on Black women just so you can treat them badly at best.

 

[Rell84shots]

he went on a tirade shytting on Malcolm X, far as i'm concerned its foot on neck season indefinitely with this rotund , russet potato built ass nicca

I remember that shyt. He went on the Breakfast Club and said Malcolm wasn't really in the streets, he also was talking about KKKillary being an ally to the black community.

 

[ORDER_66]

Having a white spouse doesn’t matter anymore. People need to do what makes them happy and as a community we aren’t marrying one another. People deserve to be happy.

 

[Rawtid]

Lol you haven’t been happy in MONTHS, so I’m sure the concept is foreign to you. You don’t know what to do if you’re not in absolute misery.

 

[ORDER_66]

Lol you haven’t been happy in MONTHS, so I’m sure the concept is foreign to you. You don’t know what to do if you’re not in absolute misery.

I may not be happy but I know a sellout when i see one

 

[Rhyme n Tekniq]

I remember that shyt. He went on the Breakfast Club and said Malcolm wasn't really in the streets, he also was talking about KKKillary being an ally to the black community.

its always the these sheltered hoecake suburban azz dudes doing the most commentary on who's street as if their opinion is even remotely grounded in reality

dude needs to stay in his lanes, dude was one of the OG pro black grifters of the early 00's, trying to pander to black people by sliding in hip hop references to make his views more digestible
personally he's always gave me phony nikka vibes and the blatant pandering to push his books was obvious. and BET was propping this nikka up every chance they could like he some kinda black leader in the making,

 

[Biscayne]

Having a white spouse doesn’t matter anymore. People need to do what makes them happy and as a community we aren’t marrying one another. People deserve to be happy.

That’s sweet and all. Really it is, but does Eric Dyson know why those women chose their spouses? Or is he just assuming they chose their husbands because “brothas don’t respect the chocolate”?

Dude sounds silly.

 

[Rawtid]

That’s sweet and all. Really it is, but does Eric Dyson know why those women chose their spouses? Or is he just assuming they chose their husbands because “brothas don’t respect the chocolate”?

Dude sounds silly.

Does it matter why they chose their spouses or why their spouses chose them? Are we going to pretend like people in the black community are marrying in high numbers?

 

[GoAggieGo.]

I personally don't care who they're married to....but the hypocrisy and the amount of guard dogs that surround black women (by both BM and BW) on these issues is spell bounding.

If these were 7 black men being considered with 7 white wives we would be having an entirely different discussion. There would be a concerted, organized effort to keep them out of consideration by black women. It would expand into all of these debate topics (that become very public) about "colorism", white supremacy, and how Black men disrespect their mothers...how they disrespect Harriet Tubman, Rosa Parks and Sojourner Truth...and how (collectively every BM) has been brainwashed.

You wouldn't hear a peep out of a single Black male or black female celebrity defending them--not one.

But Black women do it and everyone (including in the black community--both men and women) say "...who cares, there's a bigger mission ahead of us"...and there's dead silence after that.

absolute insanity imo ...black women have a "privilege" in our community that women in other communities don't when I really think about it

You’re right.

All of this was pretty spot on.