21 may be young but still a grown ass man that can dikk you down. You not looking for nikka to fulfill you emotionally. At this point if you are single with child(ren) the best you can hope for is some young desperate nikka that can't get a girl his age to give you the business. Man I remember I was 17 and pumping this 40 year old divorced MILF to kingdom come but I couldn't finish cause I was too nervous that one of her male relatives would stop by and ask what the fukk is this young nikka doing in your house LOL