Minnesota teen says server forced her to prove her gender in restaurant bathroom

[ORDER_66]

Yes, the description you’ve provided does contain a few elements that might seem contradictory or confusing. Here’s why:

1. "Genderless" suggests a lack of gender, while "androydronus" seems to be a blend of "android" (often implying artificial, robotic, or genderless traits) and possibly "androgynous" (which refers to a mix of male and female traits). However, the word "androydronus" isn’t a standard term, so it could be interpreted in different ways, but it might hint at something neither distinctly male nor female.
2. "Tranny" is a slang term that can be considered derogatory or offensive when referring to transgender people. It's typically used to describe someone who is transgender, but it doesn’t seem to fit well with the idea of being genderless or androgyne (someone with both male and female traits).

In essence, the mix of "genderless" and "tranny" creates a contradiction because the term "tranny" is generally used to describe someone who identifies as a particular gender (usually transgender), while "genderless" implies a lack of gender entirely. This combination could be seen as an oxymoron due to the conflicting ideas.

The phrase could be clearer if the intent was better understood, but as it stands, the description feels disjointed.

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You know what i meant. stahp it...

 

[85 East]

I feel this is sexism and gender bias more than anything...

You don't get it. If a white person feels a black woman looks too masculine for their liking, the burden is now on the black woman to prove her sex. When black women. Dominate in sports, they will demand proof from doctors these women arw women

 

[ORDER_66]

You don't get it. If a white person feels a black woman looks too masculine for their liking, the burden is now on the black woman to prove her sex. When black women. Dominate in sports, they will demand proof from doctors these women arw women

i just thought she was a genederless looking person... this wasnt the first time this situation has happened!... do people here not understand this???

 

[bnew]

I don't think she is gonna get the back.
They didnt ask her to undress or anything, just to remove a coat, she didn't help herself either by admitting that she dresses so much like me that she has been asked by other women to leave as well.

none of that matters, past discrimination doesn't doesn't justify future discrimination. no reasonable person would conclude she had to undress at all.

some women have A-cups. tens of thousands of men have gynecomastia, some of whom statically might look androgynous. should they be forced to show their genitalia to prove their gender to strangers?

100K women get mastectomies annually and probably up to 4 million women in america had them. should they have to prove their gender to strangers?

 

[David_TheMan]

none of that matters, past discrimination doesn't doesn't justify future discrimination. no reasonable person would conclude she had to undress at all.

some women have A-cups. tens of thousands of men have gynecomastia, some of whom statically might look androgynous. should they be forced to show their genitalia to prove their gender to strangers?

100K women get mastectomies annually and probably up to 4 million women in america had them. should they have to prove their gender to strangers?

She wasn't illegally discrimination against.
She dresses and presents herself purposely as a man, so she was stopped from initially entering a female bathroom, she took her jacket off and they saw her and let her in.

No different than they would do to a woman going into a man's room.

 

[Yaboysix]

If I was a woman I would've worked that shyt and started cowering and crying on the bathroom floor... looking disheveled....until another customer came in and saw me and had them call the police... That server forcefully ripped my clothes off and sexually assaulted me at THAT point....

Oh, I'm hypin it up ,and I'ma sue and own a few Franchises after that.

 

[Tribal Outkast]

I don't think she is gonna get the back.
They didnt ask her to undress or anything, just to remove a coat, she didn't help herself either by admitting that she dresses so much like me that she has been asked by other women to leave as well.

I’m sure the managers and owner of the company aren’t happy about a random server making a chick prove shes a girl. You can just go around doing that. These people try to prevent lawsuits.. not create them. That server lost

 

[David_TheMan]

I’m sure the managers and owner of the company aren’t happy about a random server making a chick prove shes a girl. You can just go around doing that. These people try to prevent lawsuits.. not create them. That server lost

Server will probably lose their job, or get a heavy fine and retraining.
That said if its reasonable and as the girl has said she is used to getting stopped because she looks like a boy.
I don't see too much being able to happen in terms of huge monetary settlement.

 

[TheSuperkick!]

be a fakkit and expect to be taken serious, brehdildowearer-brehettetran

 

[drederick tatum]

That employee better hope her manager* told her to do that, otherwise she's probably already been fired.

*there's a joke here, but I'm too tired

 

[Peter Popoff]

This shıt crazy.

You know - fun fact:

@Roger king always get misidentified as an overweight bıtch all the time because he has titties and an extremely feminine voice...but that's besides the point.

Shorty needs to lawyer up and if she has brothers, cousins and other male relatives - Apply hands, feet, knees and toes in that bıtch ass server soon as he step off shift like @Roger king rep. Female family members if it was a bıtch.

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Commented on Tue Aug 12 21:25:35 2025 UTC

Bathroom panic just leads to people selectively enforcing rigid gender norms. Non-conformity can get you assaulted and harassed regardless of how you were born.

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│ Commented on Tue Aug 12 23:07:18 2025 UTC
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│ A couple years ago in Canada, somebody harassed a 9 year old cisgender girl and her moms at a track meet because it was "supposed to be a girls' event" and they were "letting boys compete." He denied vocally harassing them, but admitted he asked an official to verify the girl's gender.
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│ Around the same time in Indiana, a black cis woman was murdered by her neighbor who said she was “a male acting like a woman” and that he'd "do it again."
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Commented on Tue Aug 12 21:25:35 2025 UTC

Bathroom panic just leads to people selectively enforcing rigid gender norms. Non-conformity can get you assaulted and harassed regardless of how you were born.

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│ Commented on Tue Aug 12 22:37:45 2025 UTC
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│ yep, it’s like the lesbian couple that were harassed in Boston when they went into the women’s restroom. they were using the “right” restroom and they still got harassed bc one of them didn’t present as very feminine. it’s bullshyt.
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│ │ Commented on Wed Aug 13 00:04:36 2025 UTC
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│ │ That should never happen, but it particularly shouldn't happen here. Massachusetts law protects everyone's right to use the restroom that matches their gender identity. Conservatives tried to get it overturned with a ballot question, and 67% of the state voted to keep it.
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│ │ │ Commented on Wed Aug 13 02:28:43 2025 UTC
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│ │ │ So 33%, a 1/3 of the state was for overturning this law. There are your folks making bathroom usage unsafe
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[boogers]

so a person of color got profiled in a bathroom and was basically forced to expose themselves... and half of yall are riding with the server

just trying to make sure im understanding this thread

 

[FTBS]

Plot twist:

She gay too and just wanted to see them titties

 

[Jaguar93]

Imagine somebody following and questioning you about your gender. If you don’t get yo dumb ass away from me lol.