Most men have accepeted combative women as the norm in a relationship

[Jalether]

She's pretty, she loves me etc but if you have ever been with a woman that is more worried about your wellbeing and focuses less on "what you should have been doing" then most men will demand better.

When you get a call/text at work on some "How's work going,what do you want for dinner when you get home baby"

and she asks how you are feeling and genuinely wants to make you happy from time to time, it's the greatest feeling in the worldand I threw that away with my ex

Demand more from your women fellas, It's not cool to be with a woman that sees fault in everything you do and focuses on the negatives

 

[⠀X ⠀]

American men, especially us brehs, generally have no standards.

 

[Jalether]

American men, especially us brehs, generally have no standards.

Real talk. Some men justify the combativeness as her being a strong woman on some feminist shyt.
but fukk that, I'm already at war in the streets with white supremacy and workplace politics and stress, I don't need another war at home

 

[jay83]

American men, especially us brehs, generally have no standards.

I think many men have just given up. They just take what they can get. They are so used to uncooperative women that it’s just accepted. The media promotes being bougie, ratchet, moody, Atlanta housewives like.

 

[⠀X ⠀]

I think many men have just given up. They just take what they can get. They are so used to uncooperative women that it’s just accepted. The media promotes being bougie, ratchet, moody, Atlanta housewives like.

Many of us have not grown up with a man in the home to show us how to interact with a woman. And even those of us who did have a father living with us, he was often henpecked. We saw our moms being domineering and uncooperative, so we think that’s just normal behavior for a woman in a relationship.

 

[Action Mike]

this is gospel level.

All that foul mouth, head twisting, combative shyt is NOT NORMAL. Arguing all the time and her being extremely vain ain't normal.

Delete these people and have peace.

 

[BaggerofTea]

Not I

 

[Nemesis]

western men

and the truth is the women only become like that after they get the ring because they have the power after marriage

They are literally in a win win situation , because at her whim she will have you living in a studio apartment while she is living in the house that you are still paying the mortgage on , getting her back blown out by her new boyfriend , telling your kids that you are a deadbeat while not allowing you access to them

Im not even Get Married brehs and even I see its fukked up


I remember a Nigerian woman asking me why is it that American men worked on their marriage while Nigerian men went and came as they pleased

I told her , American men are forced to endure their wives bullshyt because they dont want to lose everything they have worked for

A Nigerian woman divorces her man , all shes leaving with is her clothes , thats the only reason why divorce rates arent sky high in that country

My cousin moved his sidepiece into his house and told his wife if she dont like it shes free to leave .....

 

[Wear My Dawg's Hat]

I think many men have just given up. They just take what they can get. They are so used to uncooperative women that it’s just accepted. The media promotes being bougie, ratchet, moody, Atlanta housewives like.

Exactly.

Many girls and women are raised to view using conflict in a relationship as a form of "strength."

To them, conflict is much more important than cooperation. Conflict is power.

 

[Wild self]

No wonder the birthrate is dropping FAST. Maybe mother nature is telling biology not to reproduce for the good of the ecosystem.

 

[ORDER_66]

that's why i stay single... dealing with a combative woman like that most of the time would drive any man insane...

 

[semicko82]

@Typical Simp

 

[calixprynce]

that's why i stay single... dealing with a combative woman like that most of the time would drive any man insane...

Man I’ve been so stress free since my ex . Bih had me chain smokin black and milds . Not worth it. I’m way happier AND I got accepted to UT

 

[Nemesis]

If there is one good thing I have done in my life its the fact that I managed not to put myself in the situation where I became one of those dudes that when they came home from work have to spend 30 minutes just sitting in their car just to mentally prepare to go home...

 

[UberEatsDriver]

Men should develop standards and live by it. Also stop thinking with your dikk or Instagram likes. Just because a bytch is bad does not mean you have to tolerate her BS.


My ex whose a bad bytch that most dudes use to thirst for? I broke up with her myself FOH