Most Men over 30 are BURNED OUT with Horrid Dating History, Work, NightLife and Baby Mommy Drama

[Stuntone]

Imagine a man ....

Working at hood barbershop, delivery service, security or helpdesk making 20$/hr
Trying to be a Player/Hustler/Rapper on and off
2 Happy Hours during the workweek
Meeting and getting to know new women all the time (most deadends)
2 All Nighters at clubs and afterhours spot every weekend
Horrible Drinking and Eating habits
5 hours of sleep a night
Never exercising
In debt, but booking vacations with a her friends to All Star Weekend, Miami and Essence Fest.
He owes everyone in her family and talks shyt about them on social media
Child support eating him alive, but still has to get them Jordans



A few years of that will burn anyone out.


At 30, with child support making his hair fall out, flabby n sick with a collection of Jordans and Yeezys in his 1 bedroom apt. Can't really date bcuz he aint trying to spend more than 30$ on a date. Broke as hell, he starts complaining about how these women are gold diggers.



I'm trying to clown them, but this is reality for a lot of man, It's sad.

 

[Reptile]

Im half of 54 so I can relate.

 

[Ohene]

happy to be almost 31 with almost no kids, debt free and with an attractive, wholesome woman who I truly believe I can build a future with
as annoying as dealing with one woman can be, gallivanting for your whole life is just as stressful, more time consuming and more costly nowadays

i prefer to have one stable shorty, so i can focus my time on my career, saving money and side hustles instead of chasing tail

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

Women are the problem or I should says men's preoccupation with sex.

Leave them broads alone and focus on yourself brothers

 

[Stuntone]

happy to be almost 31 with almost no kids, debt free and with an attractive, wholesome woman who I truly believe I can build a future with
as annoying as dealing with one woman can be, gallivanting for your whole life is just as stressful, more time consuming and more costly nowadays

i prefer to have one stable shorty, so i can focus my time on my career, saving money and side hustles instead of chasing tail

Real talk!

 

[TAYLONDO SAMSWORTHY]

#NoKidsGang
#GMB
#PeaceGang

 

[Stuntone]

Real talk I think it's wise to retire from hard living clubbing around 27. Anything more than 3 years might ruin you going forward.

 

[Dre God]

No working class man over 30 goes out 4 times a week. Might be 4 times a month if that.

This spin thread doesn’t work because in the womens scenarios they don’t actually pay for anything, leading them to burn the candle from both ends.

 

[Ohene]

Real talk I think it's wise to retire from hard living clubbing around 27. Anything more than 3 years might ruin you going forward.

Yea

I was 28 once covid started and have only been to a club once since. I dont have the energy desire for it. Will only go for special occasions or if my homies and I wanna grab a few drinks. Even then, would much rather prefer to kick it at a friends crib wheres there isnt too much noise, people and overpriced food/drinks

Ten years ago was one thing..:but nowadays people dont even party. Just stand around trying to look like theyrehaving fun as opposed to actually having fun

 

[GodinDaFlesh]

Notice you won't get anywhere near the amount of pushback as the thread you did for women.

It's okay to critique men, but women are above reproach

 

[Rembrandt]

Notice you won't get anywhere near the amount of pushback as the thread you did for women.

It's okay to critique men, but women are above reproach

Or it's because bro has like 5 threads on the front page

 

[UpAndComing]

Thank God I'm not the clubbing/bar type

Most of my activities are Outdoor activities, Stand up Comedy shows, and anything Artistic

All of these give me peace

 

[IAMDetroit]

happy to be almost 31 with almost no kids, debt free and with an attractive, wholesome woman who I truly believe I can build a future with
as annoying as dealing with one woman can be, gallivanting for your whole life is just as stressful, more time consuming and more costly nowadays

i prefer to have one stable shorty, so i can focus my time on my career, saving money and side hustles instead of chasing tail

This yo mantra

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Or it's because bro has like 5 threads on the front page

I commented about that in the other thread and then I just said fukk it, nvm. Op on some:



He gone make all his threads and say what he gotta say dammit.

 

[brickfare]

Imma say this, and I'm a year shy of 40, never married, no kids, etc

it is completely fine to not date, and I don't mean on some incel shyt. some of us just ain't meant to be with one woman and ain't wired for man whoring. a few years back out in the streets put a whole new emphasis on "focus on yourself king"