Most Men over 30 are BURNED OUT with Horrid Dating History, Work, NightLife and Baby Mommy Drama

[Rembrandt]

I commented about that in the other thread and then I just said fukk it, nvm. Op on some:



He gone make all his threads and say what he gotta say dammit.

For real, nikka is everywhere. Might as well let him vent I guess lmao

 

[Savvir]

Imagine a man ....

Working at hood barbershop, delivery service, security or helpdesk making 20$/hr

2 Happy Hours during the workweek

2 All Nighters at clubs and afterhours spot every weekend

these things dont match...

cant do the last 2 if your only income lines up with the first

 

[skyrunner1]

Real talk I think it's wise to retire from hard living clubbing around 27. Anything more than 3 years might ruin you going forward.

Yea, I recommend get it out your system as early as possible. The people I see who started going to house parties and on early as 15 was done with it by like 23-25. They did the circuit of house parties to all age clubs to fake id to get in clubs, to all nite out, to college/frat parties to graduate now you got a lil change so you do nicer clubs to club/ strip club combo to lounges to realizing you just throwing money down the drain and say fukk this shyt..

Some people be sheltered and dont get it out system til later and that messes up their timeline a lil..

 

[5thbornpowerseed]

I dont know these dudes...
My guys are career men...
Refined hustlers...
Or deeply religiously devoted...

Even dudes I know that aint hittin it out the park are doin ok...

Loser life just doesnt seem as wide spread around here(Newerk/Essex county)

 

[Stuntone]

Notice you won't get anywhere near the amount of pushback as the thread you did for women.

It's okay to critique men, but women are above reproach

Exactly. That's why I made this thread.

 

[ReggieFlare]

Imma say this, and I'm a year shy of 40, never married, no kids, etc

it is completely fine to not date, and I don't mean on some incel shyt. some of us just ain't meant to be with one woman and ain't wired for man whoring. a few years back out in the streets put a whole new emphasis on "focus on yourself king"

I'm nearing 31 fam and the older I get the more I think I'm starting to fall into this category, despite wanting to eventually have a family of my own

How'd you find yourself in this position breh? For me it has been a combination of bad luck with relationships and not having found that person that makes me want to give up my independence.

 

[Oatmeal]

#NoKidsGang
#GMB
#PeaceGang

I'm surprised this gif didn't automatically fail to upload when you added #nokidsgang

 

[OnlyOneBoss]

Yea, I recommend get it out your system as early as possible. The people I see who started going to house parties and on early as 15 was done with it by like 23-25. They did the circuit of house parties to all age clubs to fake id to get in clubs, to all nite out, to college/frat parties to graduate now you got a lil change so you do nicer clubs to club/ strip club combo to lounges to realizing you just throwing money down the drain and say fukk this shyt..

Some people be sheltered and dont get it out system til later and that messes up their timeline a lil..

Facts breh,


I just turned 24 and all my friends (23-25) still go out but really not like that



Being 25 doing all nighters with 19-22 year olds is weak as hell let’s be real

I fr prefer hanging with my boys…if they girl’s are around they bring friends so I get more than enough social interaction


I’m in a hiking group and a trail running group and got my Muay Thai class poppin rn…and work


No kids tho and single if only I had more money lmao

 

[skyrunner1]

Facts breh,


I just turned 24 and all my friends (23-25) still go out but really not like that



Being 25 doing all nighters with 19-22 year olds is weak as hell let’s be real

I fr prefer hanging with my boys…if they girl’s are around they bring friends so I get more than enough social interaction


I’m in a hiking group and a trail running group and got my Muay Thai class poppin rn…and work


No kids tho and single if only I had more money lmao

Salute to you my boy. You in a good position and hpefully you recognize it, just keep stacking those marketable skill$ and take that cash and invest in yourself (whether that be side biz, developing more skills, getting into consulting, getting investments on point, rental property, expand your world view by traveling and such, etc.)


Only thing I will say, ima tell you like an old head told me. For some reason that mid 20 age will have you limiting yourself and shutting out that 19-22 demographic is one way you doing that. Not sure of your dating prospects but at your age that is your natural pool to fish in, you better fish in that pool while you have proximity, cultural and language access. Dont ever limit yourself, you dont want to look back in regret, just smiles and stories. Rumble young man rumble.

 

[Dave24]

Subbef

 

[Wild self]

I commented about that in the other thread and then I just said fukk it, nvm. Op on some:



He gone make all his threads and say what he gotta say dammit.

At least respect the consistently of his message.

 

[The ADD]

Subbef

 

[Da_Eggman]