Most people who say they are really happy their ex's are flourishing and doing well after breakup are full of shyt

[Jalether]

This is just a canned response that people use to not be viewed as bitter or an a$$hole

Deep down, most people don't wish their ex's well like that. There are exceptions to every rule ofcourse and it also depends on how it ended (some end amicably and in good spirit) but for the vast majority of broken relationships or marriage, this is not the case and ex's can jump in a molten lava lake for all most people care

your thoughts

 

[VertigoKnight]

I'm living my life and enjoying myself my ex barely pops up in my mind and for the most part, I hope she's having a good life too.

Things just didn't work out. But I can look at the growth I've personally had and be happy with myself and my progress.

 

[africngiant]

maybe they feel pity cause they improved themselves a lot from when they last talked. or guilt from the times they treated them bad

it depends i guess

 

[Complexion]

The only people who think like that are usually the living embodiment of "Damn, homie, in High School you was the man, homie!" when they were a pair and their shine reminds them of their fall hence the hateration.

Those who leveled up when they flipped ex to next either don't care about the rearview and if they do meet then its "A sault!" before they bounce.

In the long run everything is part of the process and thus essential into creating what comes due to whats been but the process is based entirely on you, your thought patterns and relation to the energetics of the situation. Interpretation is everything and your attitude defines your latitude because the Game is mental.

 

[Jalether]

The only people who think like that are usually the living embodiment of "Damn, homie, in High School you was the man, homie!" when they were a pair and their shine reminds them of their fall hence the hateration.

Those who leveled up when they flipped ex to next either don't care about the rearview and if they do meet then its "A sault!" before they bounce.

In the long run everything is part of the process and thus essential into creating what comes due to whats ben but the process is based entirely on you, your thought patterns and relation to the energetics. Interpretation is everything and your attitude defines your latitude.

I disagree. it's one thing to move on and not think about ex's anymore and it's another thing entirely to be "happy" for them

You think people are jumping for joy and actively rooting for their ex's like that.

 

[Complexion]

I disagree. it's one thing to move on and not think about ex's anymore and it's another thing entirely to be "happy" for them

You think people are jumping for joy and actively rooting for their ex's like that.

Lets imagine we're talking about you and an ex, just for the narrative:

What is left uncompleted?

What do you wish you could change?

Who do you blame? Why?

What would be different if it wasn't what it is?

Why does what someone else eats make you ish?


Follow this line of questioning because for many it might be the first time they've ever asked themselves with clear intent what their part was in all of this as it takes two hands to clap. Eventually you'll get to a point of renewed comprehension and a fresh perspective on a stale energetic pattern.

People are suffering all over the world because they are leaking awareness to situs that are long dead and each time they do they breathe life into the ghost and prolong their misery. Master your energetics or be enslaved by external factors. That truly is what causes the hatred - the sense of someone else still being able to pull your strings and that is entirely your choice.

The fact you go from "molten hate" or "jumping for joy" as options proves my point as you have no balance based on your own comments. Neutrality is the key.

 

[Kasper KArr]

The only people who think like that are usually the living embodiment of "Damn, homie, in High School you was the man, homie!" when they were a pair and their shine reminds them of their fall hence the hateration.

Those who leveled up when they flipped ex to next either don't care about the rearview and if they do meet then its "A sault!" before they bounce.

In the long run everything is part of the process and thus essential into creating what comes due to whats been but the process is based entirely on you, your thought patterns and relation to the energetics of the situation. Interpretation is everything and your attitude defines your latitude because the Game is mental.

Ive expressed this before to you but you’re genuinely one of the few posters here I always appreciate reading your take and your opinion on things. As such, curious to ask based off OP question…

What’s your opinion on following exes on social media? Would/do you allow your girl to have her exes on her social media?

 

[Elim Garak]

No I disagree if you aren't petty and you are able to move on you can be happy for them.

 

[Claudex]

Happiness for your exes isn't the jumping for joy type of happiness.

It's that mellow sense of well being, kinda like finding out that someone you went to school with ages ago made it big in life. It doesn't have an effect on your life, but you're glad they're doing well.

The time it takes to feel that way depends on many factors, especially on whether you were the dumped or the dumpee.

 

[re'up]

Holding onto resentments and wishing the worst for people is horrible for your health and

in rap, we call it hating lol

 

[keon]

If i left my ex, then nah I wouldn’t be bitter if she was doing well in life afterwards.

but if she dumped me? Yea, I may slightly enjoy seeing her fail in life and possibly be a lil bitter if she was doing better than me

 

[Complexion]

What’s your opinion on following exes on social media? Would/do you allow your girl to have her exes on her social media?

Why would you want to? Moths come to the flame so shine and let her follow you. Thats the correct masculine polarity anything else will not feel as it should and you know this. The fact anyone wants to keep up with the movements of someone from the past means a piece of them is still there. Either she journeys through time to go get it and resolves it or kick rocks because I'm not having anyone trying siphon my presence to send my energetics onto the next man. If you're doing this stop. Thoughts are things, everything is connected and its all about intent so use that elsewhen.

Once it clicks its like a straight line in Tetris as the fragmented nature of most (aka the house divided) is the root of most problems as it means you aren't here, now, which is the only moment that ever truly exists. It may sound complex but its actually really simple, if difficult to grasp as people generally don't talk about it.

Its why I've said 81% of the planet are Slaves as they don't know the deal and don't care really as its easier to blame and hate than master their energetics and dive into the depths of their awareness in a quest for meaning. 11% know the script but keep the truth hidden as its profitable to mislead the rest as they like to lord it over the global plantation as Slave/Masters. The remaining 8% see the Game for what it is and play the rigged hand they were dealt with a totally different intent which is why Warriors is what I call them as it takes that mindstate to go against the grain of what is commonly accepted as "the way it is" as they realize this never, ever brings anything like fulfillment.

Truly, most people are afraid to take it there as they'd rather be miserable in a crowd that thinks like them vs daring to find solutions by thinking different. Its all about how you relate to your energetics. Remember, it all takes place inside your mind.

 

[The Connoisseurs]

When you know someone’s skeletons, shortcomings and some of their toxic behavior, you’d wish them the best if you actually had genuine love for them because in the end all that energy you put out comes back around.

 

[re'up]

This goes to like base value systems, but I just had this convo with a homie who recently had a bad break up

Was telling her, you don't have to look at it like a failure, or "it didn't work" or "waste of time"

it's just a person/experience that you had, and you appreciate that person, and time for what it was, not what it wasn't.

People stay in messy and bad relationships way too long, and for unhealthy fear based reasons, I think that's a major factor. And ego, that's a major part of all of this. Anyone I ever wanted, or was with, I WANT them to be with someone really dope, whom they love. I even wrote out a list of good things I wanted for someone once. Take your ego and fear out of it.

 

[Jalether]

Lets imagine we're talking about you and an ex, just for the narrative:

What is left uncompleted?

What do you wish you could change?

Who do you blame? Why?

What would be different if it wasn't what it is?

Why does what someone else eats make you ish?


Follow this line of questioning because for many it might be the first time they've ever asked themselves with clear intent what their part was in all of this as it takes two hands to clap. Eventually you'll get to a point of renewed comprehension and a fresh perspective on a stale energetic pattern.

People are suffering all over the world because they are leaking awareness to situs that are long dead and each time they do they breathe life into the ghost and prolong their misery. Master your energetics or be enslaved by external factors. That truly is what causes the hatred - the sense of someone else still being able to pull your strings and that is entirely your choice.

The fact you go from "molten hate" or "jumping for joy" as options proves my point as you have no balance based on your own comments. Neutrality is the key.

Ok but you are not really answering the question. Do you agree that majority of people who publicly celebrate their exes are genuine or are only doing it because it's the civilized thing to do.

Do you think people like you are in the minority or the majority