Most People Will Use You If You Let Them.. It Is What It Is..

[SheWantTheD]

An example, one dude I'm real cool with and used to work with.. this dude asked me for money several times so he can buy food for lunch.

His brother also worked at the same job but would bring food from home that he cooked himself. I never gave dude money and told him the money he spends on weed he should put towards lunch.

I never gave him money but gave him a ride home once and it was a 45 minute drive one way. I never took gas money from him for that time and never drove him home again. He seemed real grateful for that though.

Anyways, I'm still cool with dude but if people think they can get something from you without reciprocating they gonna try.

Some people just aren't raised to have common courtesy. Another dude I worked with at that same job, I gave him rides home a total of 3 times. He only asked me only one or two out of the three, and didn't take advantage of my kindness. His home ain't far at all from mine either.

Just trying to highlight a real issue in this world, and when a person realizes they can't use you, they keep it moving lol.

 

[GrindMode]

im sorry op that you got taken advantage of

 

[Big Brown Areola]

 

[Sterling Archer]

 

[Iceson Beckford]

So glad I realized this recently.

When I also realised that I was overcompensating and being insecure about my perception, I realised how futile it was.

Most people ain't shyt and neither am I so why even pretend

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

An example, one dude I'm real cool with and used to work with.. this dude asked me for money several times so he can buy food for lunch.

His brother also worked at the same job but would bring food from home that he cooked himself. I never gave dude money and told him the money he spends on weed he should put towards lunch.

I never gave him money but gave him a ride home once and it was a 45 minute drive one way. I never took gas money from him for that time and never drove him home again. He seemed real grateful for that though.

Anyways, I'm still cool with dude but if people think they can get something from you without reciprocating they gonna try.

Some people just aren't raised to have common courtesy. Another dude I worked with at that same job, I gave him rides home a total of 3 times. He only asked me only one or two out of the three, and didn't take advantage of my kindness. His home ain't far at all from mine either.

Just trying to highlight a real issue in this world, and when a person realizes they can't use you, they keep it moving lol.

Worse when it’s your friends

 

[Collateral]

I loaned this dude money that I used to work with 3 times, $90 dollars in total. He would come to work with a suitcase with all his things because his living situation was that fukked. He ended up getting fired for stealing money and he tried to hit me again for more money. I just blocked his number. Tired to call me from another number and I blocked that too. I ended up running into him at this motel that I took a shorty to () last year but luckily he didn’t notice me. Guess he was literally living there


That was back when I was a 21 year old noob with my nose wide open. I’ve harden tenfold since then. He was a cac too, if it was me today I would of told him to hold his own nuts, straight like that.

 

[Clay Puppington]

Controlling / using others is an ego boost, word to @.number.(n)one.*

 

[hostsamurai]

strength is justice

if someone can make another submit through words than it's a weakness that should be rectified, but can only be revealed through pain. It's a shame most only change through pain

The strong rule and the weaker men serve. That is the way humanity has always been, no cutthroat just be on your toes at all times.

 

[GoldCoastSaint]

Factory.

Yall wanna be HOH but you really need to be hard on everybody.. You just got be worthy enough that people will put up with your wall until you soften up because they proved they were really down for you.

 

[MrFettuccinnePockets]

If you cant be used..... then your useless.

 

[TheCPA]

That's a fact, even your own family is written on the list

 

[Lady.Libra.]

We all use each other...family, friends, associates, coworkers, etc. to some degree - minute or large depending on what we need/seek.

That isn't the problem, misuse is.

 

[CapitalforCapital]

nikkas treat you how you train them to treat you at the end of the day.

 

[010101]

Controlling / using others is an ego boost, word to @.number.(n)one.*

truuuuuu

sometimes its maliciousness sometimes it's lack of awareness

both ways it ain't right

be aware

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