ShackZilla89
All Star
We extending ass whippings to women who cheat too? If not this is a bs argument...Brothers do all this talking about accountability and laboring to skip over the fact that actions have consequences.
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We extending ass whippings to women who cheat too? If not this is a bs argument...Brothers do all this talking about accountability and laboring to skip over the fact that actions have consequences.
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Completely missed the point
1. Grandfather is not your father
2. The issue was not having a man to cosign it
3. Reacting like that is an emotional response from men raised by women period. If you want to change the narrative as if he called her a biitch or disrespected her to her face to justify your lack of emotional control, then so be it
But that fact of the matter is you were a child reacting emotionally to a situation you were not involved in. So it sounds like you were actually the one raised to behave like a biitch.....and that usually happens without a "father"
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-I said we don't know what happened before the video & the mom wasn't even there. You're the one trying to change the narrative if you're implying I said he disrespected the mom or tried to justify the sons when I never did.
-I said I put hands on my moms boyfriends & you quoted me leaving out context & logic cause you felt some kinda way about the topic. I can easily say that's nonsensical female behavior. Or did your "father" teach you that?
-Fact of the matter is you have absolutely no idea what you're talking about. You say I was a child but have no idea how old I was. You say I reacted emotionally when you have no idea what happened or why I acted the way I did. You say I wasn't involved in the situation when you don't even know what the situation was. I even said we didn't get in the relationships. Whenever you have extra time you should type up which situation in my past you're using for this discussion.
We wouldn't just jump in the relationship but if the topic came up
I got cousins that beat up their moms boyfriends/husbands too for whatever reason.
Doesn't matter how old you were. A child, young or old, has no business being in their parent(s) relationships. Regardless of your situation, you came in here defending this particular situation without knowing the facts, using your own experience to back up your opinion on the matter of children putting hands on their mother's significant other. Like it has been said on here, unless there is violence, beating up your mom's significant other is an inappropriate emotional response.....
And why would it come up?....
You never gave any context and yet you were defending it. Look, at the end of the day unless there is violence, what happens between your mom and her boyfriends is their business, not yours. Instead of fighting her boyfriends/husbands, you should have talked to your mother to figure out why she kept picking shiity men to be with if they all disrespected her to your face...like you say they did