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Husband of Murdered Bride From Delhi University Speaks
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- KRISHNA POKHAREL
- Indian police have just started collecting data on them this year, Kiren Rijiju, the minister of state in the Ministry of Home Affairs told members of Parliament in the lower house on Tuesday. The Ministry of Law and Justice is preparing The Prohibition of Interference with the Freedom of Matrimonial Alliance Bill to curb the incidents of honor killing, Mr. Rijiju said.
The nature of Ms. Yadav’s death and her background brought her story onto the country’s front pages last week. In an interview with The Wall Street Journal, Mr. Seth set out his version of events leading up to her death.
He first met Ms. Yadav two years ago at her college in Delhi University through a common friend. They exchanged contacts and within a week started dating.
Mr. Seth worked at the president of India’s office as assistant programmer, arranging files and earning 17,000 rupees [$275] a month. Ms. Yadav was an undergraduate student of Sanskrit.
The son of an accountant, Mr. Seth has a house in southwestern Delhi. Ms. Yadav lived with her parents and a younger brother about five kilometers away. Both have middle-class families. Her father is a property dealer.
The couple often met at West Gate Mall in Rajouri Garden in West Delhi. They ate at McDonald’s. “She liked McPuff a lot; she always used to take that,” he says. They also visited the park in Connaught Place in the heart of the capital where they sat and chatted for hours on its green lawn. When asked to describe the way the two got along he says: “I never had to adjust anything with her. She would do as I said and I would do as she said.”
Bhawna Yadav with Abhishek Seth on the day of their wedding.
Photo from Abhishek Seth
At the start of this year, the pair told their parents they planned to marry. The young man’s mother and father agreed to the union but Ms. Yadav’s parents were set against it, according to Mr. Seth who recalls his girlfriend’s father telling him: “We won’t give our daughter to a Punjabi family because we are a Yadav family. We won’t do inter-caste marriage.”
Mr. Seth said Mr. Yadav then told him to “stay away” from his daughter.
“I remained silent listening to this because until then we were not sure when we would marry,” Mr. Seth said in an interview Wednesday.
But in June, according to Mr. Seth, Ms. Yadav’s parents started looking for a possible suitor for their daughter and the couple decided to act.
Mr. and Mrs. Yadav soon betrothed their daughter to a man from their caste and fixed Nov. 22 for the formal engagement, Mr. Seth says.
On Nov. 12, without telling their parents, Mr. Seth and Ms. Yadav went to a temple in central Delhi and married in the presence of a dozen friends. Mr. Seth brought his new wife home in the evening. The marriage wasn’t consummated, he says.
Ms. Yadav called her parents and told them, “I have married; you do whatever you want to do,” Mr. Seth recalls her saying.
Her parents soon arrived at his house. Mr. Seth recalls that they said they wanted to organize a public wedding ceremony for the couple so that their family’s honor would be preserved. For this, Mr. Seth says, they needed to take their daughter home.
The bridegroom’s family agreed and the bride was taken away.
On Nov. 14, Mr. Seth says that Ms. Yadav told him her family had begun to pressure her to annul the marriage. “They started telling her, ‘We don’t accept this marriage. You forget about this marriage. You will marry whoever we want. Forget Abhishek,’” Mr. Seth says Ms. Yadav recounted.
“Bhawna got frightened hearing this and she came to me,” Mr. Seth says. The same night, her parents showed up once again at his house, this time with some friends and relatives. The two families talked for hours, according to Mr. Seth, and Ms. Yadav’s parents convinced the couple that they would organize a public wedding ceremony for them if their daughter returned to their home. So she went.
“This was how they led us into a trap,” Mr. Seth says.
On the morning of Sunday Nov. 16, he messaged his wife’s phone. He didn’t get a reply. He called her but she didn’t pick up. Mr. Seth grew anxious. Then around 9 a.m., he got a call from Ms. Yadav’s cousin whom he says broke the news. “He said ‘Bhawna has been cremated,’” Mr. Seth recalls. “What are you saying? Tell me the truth,” he says he replied.
At 11 a.m., Mr. Seth went to the police station.
Mr. Luthra, the Delhi police inspector, said they began investigations after Mr. Seth came to them “complaining that his wife’s parents have taken her back to her house and he is suspecting some foul play.”
Police say they interrogated the parents, didn’t find their answer satisfactory and arrested them on Nov.17. They are hoping to file a formal charge sheet within a month.
- http://blogs.wsj.com/indiarealtime/...-murdered-bride-from-delhi-university-speaks/
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