People want to see and talk to people who are not average.
Men on average are not even 6 feet. Being 6 feet tall or higher instantly makes you stand out.
Most people aren't funny. Being funny makes you stand out.
Most people aren't very smart or insightful. If you have dope facts that make people think or a way of articulating yourself that makes you sound smart, you've instantly made yourself stand out.
Most people are not athletic so being in shape makes you stand out.
Most people can't dress for shyt so color coordinating your gear and wearing shyt that fits and makes you look masculine makes you stand out.
If you have all of the above, women will be responsive to you because you're different than the average person. This isn't rocket science