My Coli Brehs, What would you do in this situation?

[User Already Pawged In]

One of very best friends has been married to this girl we went to high school with for about 8 years now. They've had plenty of ups-and downs, but they've always made it through. Anyway, she caught him cheating about a year ago, and they haven't been right since.

I fukks with the wife's friend from time to time. Well, last week she tells me the wife is cheating. She didn't tell me on no malicious type shyt, she's just one of them broads that you can't tell your business, because she can't keep a secret.

My bul moved out of their house about a month ago, and he has already said that he has a feeling wifey was doing something, because she was going out all the time, talking slick and sassing him. He doesn't know for sure she's cheating, but he has a feeling.

Should I tell my bul about his wife cheating? He's like a brother a to me, and I know he's stepped out PLENTY of times on her, but, damn, i don't know. The reason I'm worried to tell him is because of his reaction. He's one of those dudes that jumped from job to job after high school, but he always provided for his family. He's a C.O. now, making good money. And he's one of those dudes, always in the gym, big as shyt.

If I tell him his wife is cheating, he will BEAT THE shyt out of her. He might even kill her, and I'm not exxagerating. But if I don't tell him, and wifey's big mouth friend tells him one day and mentions she already told me, he might look sideways at me. I don't want my bul to lose his job or go to jail but I also don't want to have hit his wife with the if they ever get back together. What would you do?

 

[bl2k8]

You gotta tell him bruh, if my boy ain't tell me my wife was cheating I'd be lookin at him sideways

 

[Ice Cold]

If you think he's going to do something that endangers his life or his freedom, don't tell him.

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

Tell him and escort him to his crib so he can get his shyt or kick her out and be done with it.... Help him through the break up and help him deal with the infidelity... Its called being a friend .... Dont tell him and let him go off the deep end breh

 

[intruder]

dont get involved in that passa passa

 

[#1 pick]

Take him to the ballgame, tell him there, and try to me a mediator but really, there are some people you don't tell stuff because they about their business.

 

[MightyHealthy]

I wouldn't even get involved, unless it was to keep your hypocrite ass friend from doing something stupid.

 

[Kalik]

Tell him your homegirl who is her friend is saying shyt about his wife. He will confront her friend... You in the clear.

Now the talkative friend won't tell you anymore shyt. Shouldn't bother you, if you don't like female drama

 

[killacal]

Yall some bytches. You owe it to him to tell him if thats your boy. If a close homie knew and didnt tell me I wouldnt look at him sideways Id cut him off.

 

[Singh]

If its one hundred percent fact I would tell dude

How sure are u he gon beat her or kill the bytch like probability?

shyt ain't worth dude catchin a case especially since hw got a solid job

Just break up with the bytch

 

[skeetsinternal]

@Kalik sound advice. I feel that as a friend u should stay out the way and let dude confront her friend. At the end of the day you still being a a good friend and you out the drama.
@User Already Pawged In Your friend aint going to do shyt. Aint no bytch worth jail or losing a job. He did his dirt and just need to move on

 

[itsyoung!!]

Tell him your homegirl who is her friend is saying shyt about his wife. He will confront her friend... You in the clear.

Now the talkative friend won't tell you anymore shyt. Shouldn't bother you, if you don't like female drama

finally someone with voice of reason..

its gonna look bad if you tell him his wife is cheating cause YOU heard from her friend. What if the friend just found out from a friend ? Either way , you say "man you know im messing with one of her friends right? Well she was tellin me bout your wife.." this way you let him know, and you are just the relay person

if you dont say anything, you aint lookin out for him at all regardless of out come

people in here talkin about "dont tell her if its gonna danger her" you cant control his actions, what you can control is how real a friend are you to him and either let him know or not know

 

[Taadow]

Tell him your homegirl who is her friend is saying shyt about his wife. He will confront her friend... You in the clear.

Now the talkative friend won't tell you anymore shyt. Shouldn't bother you, if you don't like female drama

This is the answer.

 

[NoMoreWhiteWoman2020]

Take him to the strip club n ask him what would he do if he knew ur girl was dogging u. If he says he would tell, tell him. But dont let him go to the slammer over spme puss he aint gettin no more

 

[User Already Pawged In]

Appreciate the knowledge. I'm gonna tell him this weekend, hope he just don't wild out on her. But if it was me, I would want my boy to tell me the deal.