My dads friends ex did him dirty brehs

[606onit]

Your father associates with and values the company of nothing Negroes.....

 

[Nephilim_BC]

sounds like the definition of a deadbeat
Well, months and months later he's still there. I personally think he's getting comfortable there, going out all the time from what I heard and buying shyt all the time unnecessarily. Every time I go over there I see all kinds of new name brand shyt and electronics every where.

I agree that the bolded is very unnecessary but that's his money. but its not like he isnt taking care/visiting his kids...cause he is. what he does in his extra time with his extra money is his business, I just think he should of been trying to get his own crib earlier. but that doesn't make him a dead beat cause he is taking care of his kids and there for them.

 

[Nephilim_BC]

Your father associates with and values the company of nothing Negroes.....

I love how yall are trying to spin this on my pops just cause he has an extra room that he is letting a friend stay in. Its not like he's staying for free. That chick serving ole dude with papers right when he was trying to get a house has nothing to do with my pops

 

[606onit]

I love how yall are trying to spin this on my pops just cause he has an extra room that he is letting a friend stay in. Its not like he's staying for free. That chick serving ole dude with papers right when he was trying to get a house has nothing to do with my pops

U aint say he was PAYING.
If you let niccas get too comfortable, they'll never leave.

 

[Nephilim_BC]

U aint say he was PAYING.
If you let niccas get too comfortable, they'll never leave.

I didnt feel like I had to go into great detail.

and I told him that after I started seeing all that new stuff. apparently the reason why he buys so much shyt unnecessarily is because its his "sickness" or helps him recover from the split him and ole girl had. I just laughed. I dont believe that

 

[the artist known az]

Sounds fishy to me. If he can't get a house then rent one or a townhouse. How old is the kid?

 

[Nephilim_BC]

Sounds fishy to me. If he can't get a house then rent one or a townhouse. How old is the kid?

Idk, I just know she is really young like elementary school type young. but thing is considering how old he is he may not want to be renting something. but thats pretty much what he's doing right now anyways with my pops so I slightly agree.

either way its an L

 

[Turbulent]

dudes thinkin supporting their kids is doin em dirty

dude shouldve been got them papers himself

naw i think i see what dude is saying. it's like you can give your child mother's money (same amount of money you would give for child support) without actually being on child support. except there is no court documents so your cashflow looks better if you need to apply for a mortgage. maybe they had an arrangement for him to give her money for the kids without putting him on CS and when she saw he was making a move, she still put him on CS to spite him (at least that's how i interpreted it).

it's still dude's fault though cause his best move would have been to talk about it with his ex before hand (yeah, i know that's easy to say after the fact). but it seems like dude was trying to stunt a little.

 

[the artist known az]

Idk, I just know she is really young like elementary school type young. but thing is considering how old he is he may not want to be renting something. but thats pretty much what he's doing right now anyways with my pops so I slightly agree.

either way its an L

Renting is a hell of a lot better than living at a friend's house. To me he sounds way too old to be living like this.

 

[Nephilim_BC]

naw i think i see what dude is saying. it's like you can give your child mother's money (same amount of money you would give for child support) without actually being on child support. except there is no court documents so your cashflow looks better if you need to apply for a mortgage. maybe they had an arrangement for him to give her money for the kids without putting him on CS and when she saw he was making a move, she still put him on CS to spite him (at least that's how i interpreted it).

it's still dude's fault though cause his best move would have been to talk about it with his ex before hand (yeah, i know that's easy to say after the fact). but it seems like dude was trying to stunt a little.

exactly

 

[Nephilim_BC]

Renting is a hell of a lot better than living at a friend's house. To me he sounds way too old to be living like this.

totally agree with you. he's living like a 16 year old. but like I said thats his money and i stay out of other peoples pockets.

 

[the artist known az]

totally agree with you. he's living like a 16 year old. but like I said thats his money and i stay out of other peoples pockets.

I'm just talking if I was in your pop's shoes. I ain't trying to have no damn roommate at 50. But if your pop is cool with it who are we to judge. It just sounds like it's kind of convenient that he's getting hit up for CS when he's trying to buy a house. Then buying new stuff & going out.

 

[Nephilim_BC]

I'm just talking if I was in your pop's shoes. I ain't trying to have no damn roommate at 50. But if your pop is cool with it who are we to judge. It just sounds like it's kind of convenient that he's getting hit up for CS when he's trying to buy a house. Then buying new stuff & going out.

I completely understand that people need places to stay, I just think he's overstayed it. Now my pops apparently has more patience(that or he is enjoying the extra money right now ) but I think it should of been a couple months max just so he'd have enough time to find an apartment he likes. Idk about yall but i dont jump on the first thing I see. I gotta catch them move in specials

 

[illadope]

How is he a dead beat?



he was already paying her child support, just wasnt through the courts

For anyone actually reading this please learn this, if it isnt set up through the courts it's not child support but considered a mutual gift.