My Father Called The Cops On My Disabled Mother Last Night (That Shyt BURNED My Soul Man)

[SirReginald]

I'm not going into much detail because I don't like telling my personal business, but my mother put my father out last night. Second time in a row he was caught cheating. Now, she said if he wasn't back by a certain time that he wasn't coming in. I was on my mother's side because she's been sick recently. So, he calls the cops and the cop tries talking shyt to my mother. In the house that both my parents own. Now, I'm informing my mother that you have rights and just walk of. What I've should have done was film the police. Anyway, I'm still on my grind The problem is I don't know how I'm gonna get to the bus stop because I always leave when my father leaves. Last night was the straw that broke the camels back. Guess in a way the shyt motivated me to do better. Because now I have to leave, so I'll still be looking for work. I may NEVER speak to my father again. Has anyone went through this before? Plus, we had an argument earlier while I was talking to my mother and he tried to tell me to stay in my place.

 

[Lewis Black]

Wish I could help but ion understand what you talking about my dude.

 

[SirReginald]

Wish I could help but ion understand what you talking about my dude.

He called the cops on my mother because she wouldn't let him in. The shyt has me livid too.

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

Does he pay some of the bills in the house?

 

[SirReginald]

Does he pay some of the bills in the house?

My mother pays most of the bills in the house. He just works and claim to hardly have any money. She used to work until she had a stroke in June of 2013. My mother was a hard worker too. This year she had a thyroid in her neck and she had clots in her leg.

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

My mother pays most of the bills in the house. He just works and claim to hardly have any money. She used to work until she had a stroke in June of 2013. My mother was a hard worker too. This year she had a thyroid in her neck and she had clots in her leg.

So he pays some of the bills, right ?

 

[SirReginald]

So he pays some of the bills, right ?

He will pay the water, but my mother will pay the rest. With her retirement and disability check.

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

He will pay the water, but my mother will pay the rest. With her retirement and disability check.

And are they married?

 

[SirReginald]

And are they married?

Yes been married since 1979. I'm a late child btw.

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

Yes been married since 1979. I'm a late child btw.

Then that's his home too and she does not have the right to give a grown man a curfew. Divorce court is down the street

 

[*L*E*G*A*C*Y*]

#1 rule when it comes to family, no matter how bad anything gets, I would never and it should never come down to calling the cops on other family members...especially if you're black.

WE all know how that goes...don't want to end up being a news headline and a hashtag.

 

[SirReginald]

#1 rule when it comes to family, no matter how bad anything gets, I would never and it should never come down to calling the cops on other family members...especially if you're black.

WE all know how that goes...don't want to end up being a news headline and a hashtag.

That's why I was mainly pissed last night.

 

[newworldafro]

Then that's his home too and she does not have the right to give a grown man a curfew. Divorce court is down the street

Yeah OP, this is pretty much the case. Sorry for the situation, but the court will allow her to kick him out the house, without some time of immediate threat. They may need to hit that reset button, and call up some attorneys. Not a lawyer, but I just finished watching Breaking Bad.

 

[SirReginald]

Then that's his home too and she does not have the right to give a grown man a curfew. Divorce court is down the street

We moved in the home in 02'. Also, in a marriage you should be honest. My mother never cheated and has worked hard for all her life.

 

[Turbulent]

if it's both their home they both have the right to stay. maybe your mom should have left.

but then again, calling the cops on your fam is low (unless it's a very serious threat of violence...)