My friend just doesn't get it (What do I do?)

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One of my guy friends have been talking to this girl for three months. They've gone on dates, hung out etc. We spoke about two weeks ago and he was like I'm going to let her make it official (my reaction :comeon:, I already knew what was going to happen)

Fast forward to now: The girl says they're on the same page, different levels but they can't date and he's absolutely crushed. "I don't know how I'm going to go on with her, we were so compatible, she understood me" yadda yadda yadda. So I figured from what he was saying without saying that he was going to wait till she's ready. :wow:

The girl took him for a ride and now wants to say she's not ready...I don't know what to say to him as I already said he's setting himself up for disappointment but he's brushing me off and laughing. If they were so great for each other as he said, timing wouldn't matter no?

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I need to smack him and bring him back to reality.
 

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He needs to tell her that he's pregnant and trap her into getting serious.
 

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There ain't really much you can say or do dawg. you just have to let him go through that himself and then be a REAL friend and tell him "I told you so" once she crush his buildings for good
 

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There ain't really much you can say or do dawg. you just have to let him go through that himself and then be a REAL friend and tell him "I told you so" once she crush his buildings for good

This will be the fourth time I told him so. Like I warn him before he gets emotionally invested yet he continues to go for it :snoop:
He's a really good guy if I wasn't living in Canada, I'd date him in a second. I don't want these girls to ruin him :sadcam:
 

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He's going to have to learn on his own or he'll make the same mistake AGAIN with a different chick
 

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Give him some p*ssy to get his mind off ol girl.

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You have to let people make their own mistakes sometimes. Sometimes, your opinion as a friend and your support during the fall out is all thats necessary. Some lessons, friends have to learn on their own.

I'll say this though. When love is real and mutual between 2 people who have had little history, there are no games and the 2 people are hard to separate communication wise. They're either texting each other, thinking about one another or thoroughly enjoying one anothers company. Even if they arent doing anything.

This is a test for him. Hopefully he doesnt let a woman, turn him into a demon. Its so demonic, friend. :sitdown:
 

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The fact you made a post about this means you want to smash. You know I love you patty :comeon: but if you don't want him to get her pregnant or move in with her you have to smash him, and make sure he remembers it enough to leave her
 

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The fact you made a post about this means you want to smash. You know I love you patty :comeon: but if you don't want him to get her pregnant or move in with her you have to smash him, and make sure he remembers it enough to leave her

LMAOOOOO. I had my opportunity to smash last year and I didn't :mjpls:
I JUST NEED SOME HELP :bitter:
 

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Hath thou openly expressed thy courtship woes with thine wench? Nay? Art thine joyous? Thou shalt leave thee be. He shalt learn nary if thine do not learn from thine self.
 
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