My friends boyfriend beat her and her daughter

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My good friend since childhood had an altercation with her boyfriend he threw her literally through a table so her teenage daughter went after him and he beat her too

Apparently it’s not the first time this happened.

They lived together so she’s trying to get her stuff out of his house but wants to wait for when he’s not home.

im pleading with her to report this to the police but she’s not sure.

Ive heard about way too many of these stories that end up in death so I’m trying to urge her to tell the cops before it’s too late.

This dude has a GPS tracker on her phone too so it’s clearly a dangerous situation.

Don’t know what to do
 
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WHATEVER YOU DO

Do NOT roll up on that dude. If she don't wanna get police involved then don't you get involved.

I know these 2 white boys a few years back who went to their friend who was getting beat by her husband... they rolled up with guns

The husband had his gun out too tho and shot the both of them in the head.

Don't get involved breh. Please don't get involved.
 

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He's going to eventually kill her. Get her out of the situation. Sorry to be blunt violence never settles, it always escalates until there is a climax. That climax is usually long prison sentences or somebody getting killed or badly hurt. Get her to call police and restraining order to start paper trail. Usually you can break leases if there is documentation for DV.
 

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WHATEVER YOU DO

Do NOT roll up on that dude. If she don't wanna get police involved then don't you get involved.

I know these 2 white boys a few years back who went to their friend who was getting beat by her husband... they rolled up with guns

The husband had his gun out too tho and shot the both of them in the head.

Don't get involved breh. Please don't get involved.

yeah part of me obviously got angry at first but then I thought about it and while it’s possible this dudes just a coward who preys on women it’s also possible he’s just a dangerous psychopath

I’m trying desperately to get her to call the cops
 

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Can she stay with you until she is able to get her things?

Eh idk bout that breh because OP said dude put a tracker on her phone so who knows what's gonna be going through his mind if he pulls up to the crib.

Regardless, she needs to call the police. There's been too many situations where the third party is just tryna look out and it ends up badly. And plenty of times, the girl will go right back to dude so all that generosity is out the window.

First things first before you get involved directly is to get her to call the police. I'd be a little skeptical if she doesn't want to call them.
 

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yeah part of me obviously got angry at first but then I thought about it and while it’s possible this dudes just a coward who preys on women it’s also possible he’s just a dangerous psychopath

I’m trying desperately to get her to call the cops

I highly doubt he’s a psychopath he’s probably just suffering from some kinda PTSD from his childhood, usually abandonment issues and he’s being triggered and lashing out. Hurt people hurt people.

fukked up situation. Does she have a safe place she and her daughter can go to?
 

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I highly doubt he’s a psychopath he’s probably just suffering from some kinda PTSD from his childhood, usually abandonment issues and he’s being triggered and lashing out. Hurt people hurt people.

fukked up situation. Does she have a safe place she and her daughter can go to?

family but I’m sure he knows where they live .
She’s looking at apartments now
 

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My good friend since childhood had an altercation with her boyfriend he threw her literally through a table so her teenage daughter went after him and he beat her too

Apparently it’s not the first time this happened.

They lived together so she’s trying to get her stuff out of his house but wants to wait for when he’s not home.

im pleading with her to report this to the police but she’s not sure.

Ive heard about way too many of these stories that end up in death so I’m trying to urge her to tell the cops before it’s too late.

This dude has a GPS tracker on her phone too so it’s clearly a dangerous situation.
Probably be called an a$$hole
fukk it
This sounds like she will return to buddy in a couple of days
When a person is fed up with a living condition
Especially a woman
Ain’t nothing stopping her from moving out
Cops, sheriffs, big brothers
All of them would be at the door within 24 hours
One thing sticks out to me as why she is unsure of calling the cops
She wants to go back in the house to do big damage to his belongings when he is not there
But if he has security cameras
And as you stated GPS(must be an iPhone.
If it’s an android, not too privy on their “Find a Friend” program
He will always know when she is coming back to the crib
Which leads back to my first thought of working it out again
I hope you can get her out the situation the best way you can as a friend
But don’t go playing Superman breh
I know it’s innately as a man to protect the people he cares about
But you got family too that cares about you
I know that sounds selfish
But they will mourn you too
 
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