My girl of 3 years is confused about her feelings.
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OP. I need you sit down with her and ask her why she is confused about her feelings and report back here with what she says. Ask her is she fukking someone else?
You did the right thing imo but I just want more info because im nosy.
You did the right thing imo but I just want more info because im nosy.
Went through her phone, she has been talking to an old male friend who lives 100 miles awayfor the past two months, I dont know if they have a past together though. The breh just recently left his cheating baby mama (his got doubts the kid is his).
Maybe she planning to hook up with this breh, I don't know. She is out regardless, I'm helping her look for a room & hopefully she out of my place by the end of next week
Cancel her..
Oh relax, we’re fukking with op (look at his name lol). I hope op knows that.Got damn
We’re just joking. 
Vodun
All Star
Breh I been down the same path its like this before she moved in she had a fantasy on what it was going be like. That fantasy gave her a dopamine high. So they finally living together and the fantasy in her head doesn't match with reality thus why she is confused with her feelings. Op being a normal man probably did something normal around her and she lost interest. Real bird brain stuff.
You did right op kick her ass out because you will have major problems down the line
Bless't
Living the dream
That shyt caught me too.
Vodun
All Star
Yep You can't negotiate genuine desireFacts.
Once a woman starts moving iffy just move on.
You can't try to logically talk a woman out of the way she feels it doesn't work that way.
Bless't
Living the dream
Whatever you do... dont do this OP.
They were together too long for all that. Its simple. They say no woman is with her first choice. Well her first choice fell back on the market (probably sold her that ‘it wasnt my baby’ bullshyt too), now shes “confused”
It's mostly women though. Women are the ones who initiate breakups most the time.
Men who are looking for a woman to have kids with aren't looking to leave their families.
Women get bored or mad and break up their families for a downgraded existence.
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Scustin Bieburr
Baby baybee baybee UUUGH
Smart move. Any time a woman can't give you a straight answer its your cue to let her go. She's just trying to figure out how to tell you it ain't working out.
You're being kind by just cutting to the chase and wrapping things up. A lot of the time when they're talking like that they've scouted out another man and are trying to see if he's going to eventually ask her out.
I knew a woman who was more upset that the replacement wasn't feeling her than the fact that her relationship with her current dude of over 3 years is over. The rejection from the new man hurt more than the loss of the long term relationship
You're being kind by just cutting to the chase and wrapping things up. A lot of the time when they're talking like that they've scouted out another man and are trying to see if he's going to eventually ask her out.
I knew a woman who was more upset that the replacement wasn't feeling her than the fact that her relationship with her current dude of over 3 years is over. The rejection from the new man hurt more than the loss of the long term relationship
He has a point though...
If she feels there isn't a CLEAR sense of direction, problems will begin to arise...
YaThreadFloppedB!
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I love that Heart sample. Dope rock band.
“I’ve been lonely, I’ve been waiting for you.
I’m pretending and that’s all I can do.
The love I’m sending ain’t making it through to your heart.”
Wayne floated too
Why’d y’all break up? Actually
… it doesn’t matter. If she was “the one” she’d still be with you right now. Life ain’t a Hollywood romantic comedy; if someone wants to walk out of your life… let them. The expectations we set on other people is where the hurt comes from. People are often disappointing. You’ll shake back though.