My girl of 3 years is confused about her feelings.

[Dallas' 4 Eva]

You cannot be in a relationship with a girl for 3 years.
You cannot live with a girl for 16 months.

And also expect her to be ok with that. Women want to be married. Have kids.

This was easy to see a mile off.

The girl is right to be confused…what are you doing OP? Marry her. Seed her up.

fukk y’all playing girl friend boy friend when y’all are man and woman living together?

This is terrible advice...

 

[Ahadi]

OP..

It is what it is...

Sorry you had to hear ya moment of truth. At least you are willing to help her find a room to live in.

Perhaps in the future you may wanna fall back on living with a GF until you are engaged.

Other than that, I like ya attitude about it. If someone ain't feeling ya, then charge her to the game and keep it pushin'!

Too many women out there for ya to meet!

Nah she moves in before engagement.

You REALLY find out a persons personality once they live with you for a couple months, you then assess and proceed from there.

 

[Dallas' 4 Eva]

He's not wrong, its a lot of women expect some type of engagement after 16-24 months.

Otherwise they feel like they're wasting their time.

I say this as a man going through a divorce right now, who gives a fukk what these women want? You shouldn't. If shyt isn't on your terms at all times she can on.

 

[Ahadi]

You cannot be in a relationship with a girl for 3 years.
You cannot live with a girl for 16 months.

And also expect her to be ok with that. Women want to be married. Have kids.

This was easy to see a mile off.

The girl is right to be confused…what are you doing OP? Marry her. Seed her up.

fukk y’all playing girl friend boy friend when y’all are man and woman living together?

High key wasted her time



Not sure if he guided the relationship or stated what he was looking for from the beginning, but this definitely matters.

He shouldn’t be seeding up any woman who’s “confused” tho

 

[OfTheCross]

We been living together for 16 months, everything was good but she said she confused about her feelings. I told her it's over, she can pack her bags & leave

If true, well done.

Either she got another guy or she's looking at another guy.

 

[The Fade]

gotta be a 10 year girlfriend first

yall doing the Steve Harvey shyt got them gassed

 

[internetexplorer]

Went through her phone, she has been talking to an old male friend who lives 100 miles awayfor the past two months, I dont know if they have a past together though. The breh just recently left his cheating baby mama (his got doubts the kid is his).

Maybe she planning to hook up with this breh, I don't know. She is out regardless, I'm helping her look for a room & hopefully she out of my place by the end of next week

That part...Have zero remorse, no need to question her whatsoever. Once you found out that she was seeking male attention from outside of the house, the relationship was done.

 

[EffYou]

I say this as a man going through a divorce right now, who gives a fukk what these women want? You shouldn't. If shyt isn't on your terms at all times she can on.

Divorce? What happened bruh

 

[Dallas' 4 Eva]

Divorce? What happened bruh

It's a long story I'll probably make a thread on it once everything is done. She wanted to separate so we can get some clarity, I obliged her and bounced... then I filed for divorce on her cause I'm tired of her trying to weaponize my son against me, along with other abusive behaviors from her. Her whole plan is backfiring badly on her.

 

[EffYou]

It's a long story I'll probably make a thread on it once everything is done. She wanted to separate so we can get some clarity, I obliged her and bounced... then I filed for divorce on her cause I'm tired of her trying to weaponize my son against me, along with other abusive behaviors from her. Her whole plan is backfiring badly on her.

How’d it get like this? Did she just start tripping overtime?

 

[Icewatermetallik]

It's a long story I'll probably make a thread on it once everything is done. She wanted to separate so we can get some clarity, I obliged her and bounced... then I filed for divorce on her cause I'm tired of her trying to weaponize my son against me, along with other abusive behaviors from her. Her whole plan is backfiring badly on her.

That's rough breh..... 3 out of my 5 close guy friends are all either divorced or going through a divorce right now of girls they married in their late 20's, (they are like all 34-35 now), so they been married like 6-7 years. Some have kids too, one dodged a bullet though and doesnt yet.

This is why you really gotta know the chick you are marrying and wifing up and if she really a good woman, because when that divorce comes around, all the shyt is always in the chicks favor in the courts. She gets the house, the kids, child support, everything.

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

She talking to an old friend
Yeah she done-done
Ain’t no confusion
She just wants to get dikk downed properly without feeling “guilt” of doing something wrong/being perceived as a shytty person for having these “feelings”
Ie it’s complicated
Op Kim and heal yourself fam
Don’t go back
Telling you from personal experience
You will hate yourself for not staying steadfast

 

[Edub]

We been living together for 16 months, everything was good but she said she confused about her feelings. I told her it's over, she can pack her bags & leave

DAMN….. that’s how this shyt worked out, why breh, why you ain’t listen to G’s, tired of y’all youngins talkin bout nobody wanna kick knowledge, or ain’t no “og’s”….. but man y’all nikkas don’t be tryin to listen a lot of times too mane, gah damn that flamed out on some train wreck shyt







had y’all had separate places y’all might’ve grown together and ACTUALLY FOND of each other, but y’all rushed it and got doo doo water, damn breh

 

[Mowgli]

I had an ex who's mother had left her, with her sister, and step-father, for Vinny Testaverde. He banged her out for a month, then then sent her azz right back to the family that she had walked away from. I wouldn't have believed the story had I not found hella pics of them kicking it.

Exactly. Women chasing upgrades. If you don't have one of those tight connections it's going to be tough to get through the rocky moments when she's going through one of her million personality changes from watching TV or listening to some new idiot friend of hers who can't keep a man.

Tesetaverde. She really tried to bail on her family to live out some savior story. It doesn't matter that it probably won't work because men who take women from whole families probably ain't shyt but again, it's all about the bag and the upgrade for these hoes.

That's why, if she don't cook and clean for you, it's already a red flag her mind is on demon time.

 

[the bossman]

Damn I though that was you. The coli tried to warn you too

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