FeverPitch2
Superstar
We been living together for 16 months, everything was good but she said she confused about her feelings. I told her it's over, she can pack her bags & leave
My girl of 3 years is confused about her feelings.
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Not only did we tell you not to move in with her in the first place, you were cheating too 
Do u feel guilty when you cheat?
Do u feel guilty when you cheat?
Dallas' 4 Eva
Superstar
I have 50-50 custody bruh. nikkas really need to start fighting for their kids and stop believing this
Not only did we tell you not to move in with her in the first place, you were cheating too
Do u feel guilty when you cheat?
Dallas' 4 Eva
Superstar
It's a lot bruh I'd need a whole thread to talk about it.
This happened to me but only lasted 5 months once we started living together
Chick was a mess. Didn't wanna work, clean, cook or anything.
Just wanted to go out every other day and party
Chick was a mess. Didn't wanna work, clean, cook or anything.
Just wanted to go out every other day and party
Hit it one more time 
FeverPitch2
Superstar
Gospel.I support this decision OP. Life is too short to entertain games. Go be confused by yourself. When u not emotionally equally yoked there is no emotional security in that scenario. People who are willing to be all in, shouldn’t have to be saddled with wishy washy ambivalent people.
What you supposed to do? Wait until somebody feels u?
“Well I GUESSSS I like him…”
As someone who has been there, u did the right thing. Also block her on social media. It should be like she never existed.
None of this makes her evil btw. It’s just not about her any longer. It’s about doing what’s best and healthy for you. When somebody is uncertain about you, always make sure you see to your own needs, because an indecisive person shouldn’t be entrusted with ur emotional well-being.
ALonelyDad
Veteran
tough but good decision, when someone says that they are looking at someone else
FeverPitch2
Superstar
1LurkerChick9
All Star
Start working out being social being in your hobbies and keep your head on swivelWent through her phone, she has been talking to an old male friend who lives 100 miles awayfor the past two months, I dont know if they have a past together though. The breh just recently left his cheating baby mama (his got doubts the kid is his).
Maybe she planning to hook up with this breh, I don't know. She is out regardless, I'm helping her look for a room & hopefully she out of my place by the end of next week
To each one's own.
Personally, I wouldn't move in with someone until I am engaged to that person. As long as I am not married, I will eventually learn what I need to learn about that person.
People see things differently. I wouldn't assume the responsibility to add finances into the mix with someone I am dating. We don't know each other well enough yet to be mixing money into the equation during the dating stage.
Engagement to me is where a person decides that he/she is ready to take things to the next level, so @ that point, finances can be added and then both people can decide what direction they want to take in regards to building a legacy, foundation, so on and so forth...
I don't think any of us are wrong, I just think we have different approaches to this type of thing...