My girlfriend is jealous

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We were in a club and I needed to smoke. I go to get a light from some chick, when I get the light she says she knows me. I take another look and i do know her. We hugs and talk next thing my girl taps my arm and I tell the other girl I have to leave coz my girl is jeolus. The other girl says its fine and she goes to introduce herself. My girl acts all cold and shyt so she backs down. I tell my girl that she is an old friend but she is not having it.

She embarrassed me but i know my friend understood but I don't like that shyt. I know she loves me but she can't just do that with every woman I speak to.
 

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We were in a club and I needed to smoke. I go to get a light from some chick, when I get the light she says she knows me. I take another look and i do know her. We hugs and talk next thing my girl taps my arm and I tell the other girl I have to leave coz my girl is jeolus. The other girl says its fine and she goes to introduce herself. My girl acts all cold and shyt so she backs down. I tell my girl that she is an old friend but she is not having it.

She embarrassed me but i know my friend understood but I don't like that shyt. I know she loves me but she can't just do that with every woman I speak to.

Dump her.

She is insecure and worse than that she is fukking petty.

Tell her you are a grown ass man and new a grown ass woman.
 

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Dump her.

She is insecure and worse than that she is fukking petty.

Tell her you are a grown ass man and new a grown ass woman.

Sometimes those are the most insecure because that's all they have to offer.
 

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Gonna need pics of your girl to see if she has reasons to be insecure
 

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If you love her then you'll communicate how annoying it is that she gets all mad when you *gasp* socialize with other women.
 

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A little jealously in my mind isnt a bad thing. I like to see my girl gives a shyt. Obviously tho, there are limits to that
 

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We were in a club and I needed to smoke. I go to get a light from some chick, when I get the light she says she knows me. I take another look and i do know her. We hugs and talk next thing my girl taps my arm and I tell the other girl I have to leave coz my girl is jeolus. The other girl says its fine and she goes to introduce herself. My girl acts all cold and shyt so she backs down. I tell my girl that she is an old friend but she is not having it.

She embarrassed me but i know my friend understood but I don't like that shyt. I know she loves me but she can't just do that with every woman I speak to.

if my chick is hugged up on a dude i dont know at a club i'm putting her on blast. how the fucck do u hug up on a chick in plain view of ur girl? if its a girl u dont care about, then yeah. but if its a wifey type, u fuccked up big. and anyone in this thread who calls ur girl "insecure" is a natural born moron. there's ways around this.

u coulda hugged up on the chick. then quickly/gently eased this line over there: "oh wow. haven't seen u in a while. i'm here with my girl (then u point to your girl so ur girl sees u acknowledged her to the girl). do you come here often?"
 

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Talk to her about and just stay calm the whole time but really pay attention to her reactions from everything you say

Did she ever tell you she shouldnt have to change as a reason? Maybe she had to many drinks or in a crowded enviroment she gets anxiety
 

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if my chick is hugged up on a dude i dont know at a club i'm putting her on blast. how the fucck do u hug up on a chick in plain view of ur girl? if its a girl u dont care about, then yeah. but if its a wifey type, u fuccked up big. and anyone in this thread who calls ur girl "insecure" is a natural born moron. there's ways around this.

u coulda hugged up on the chick. then quickly/gently eased this line over there: "oh wow. haven't seen u in a while. i'm here with my girl (then u point to your girl so ur girl sees u acknowledged her to the girl). do you come here often?"

Anyone who trusts their partner won't give a shyt about a hug, they'll just assume you're palsies. If the first thing some a$$hole does is get mad, they obviously think you're prone to cheating or some shyt.
 

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I know you have to hear this all the time.
 

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Damn breh i feel you. Females are insecure to a certain extent and its healthy in a way but it can be detrimental to your relationship if you don't set rules and guidelines. One of my best friend is a female we being friend for over 10 years and every time i date a new girl they always ask "Ya'll F***?"... I broke up with my last girl cuz of her insecurity. She became so damn naggy (even after we talked) kept asking everytimea girl i talk to on phone (co workers, cousin etc) who is she?... Til one night she was drunk and i was just chilling wit my boys and she thought i was with some chick and I'm like wtf, so she drove drunk to my crib and felt dumb ass shyt and i dropped her off home and told her to pick her car up the next day and don't ever call me again.
 
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