My girlfriend keeps dreaming about having sex with other men

[Creasy]

I trust my girlfriend a whole lot and I know she wouldn't cheat on me in this current state of our relationship, but I do know people are not going to stop having a natural (?) sexual appetite towards people they see that they find sexually arousing and might play through short scenarios in their heads, I guess one could state that, that's somewhat normal. And I know she's honest and real about all her actions because she tells me about her dreams without me asking anything, so I'm not afraid of her hiding any emotions or thoughts from me.

However, it still irks me and makes me upset because I on the other hand don't ever dream about anything close to that, I stopped looking at women in a sexually interested way a long time ago and it does annoy me she got all these turmoils in her subconscious at least, I'd be lying if I said it didn't bother me right now. Like I said, I know she wouldn't cheat on me in this current state of our relationship, but I don't know where her mind is headed honestly. It's not even like the dreams are about her being a random girl having sex with a random person, she'll consciously tell me she was cheating.

See I know a few lil things about Siegmund Freud and his dream interpretation theory but I don't know if I wanna go through the whole process n shyt

I honestly just needed to vent cause this lightly bugging me but let me know what y'all think

 

[MJ Truth]

The fukkery that's about to occur in this thread.

 

[An ashy lil fap hand]

What color were the men?

 

[El Coupeacabra]

You gone have to fukk her so good before bed that she ain't got no appetite left.

I'm not saying she gone cheat on you if you don't...but...she gone keep having dreams.

Also women are backwards. So you might have to very casually show interest in other women sometimes to rile her up and give her something to prove.

 

[El Coupeacabra]

What color were the men?

Man im out here trying to help and yall tryna take this thread all the way left!

Im not mad tho

 

[Boujee Bonita Braxton]

While I understand why it irritates you, I personally don't see it as a big deal.

I had dreams of having an affair with my next door neighbor when I was married however in my conscious state I can't stand him.

The irony is that my husband was the one cheating in real life.

It's not that big of a deal.

 

[JackRoss]

What is the current state of your relationship? You say you know she won't cheat but you don't know where her head is at? What do you mean?

 

[Arithmetic]

It's a good thing she told you. Now you can leave her. Sounds like some shyt you would see on Reddit.

 

[MJ Truth]

While I understand why it irritates you, I personally don't see it as a big deal.

I had dreams of having an affair with my next door neighbor when I was married however in my conscious state I can't stand him.

The irony is that my husband was the one cheating in real life.

It's not that big of a deal.

Nah, your dreaming about sleeping with the neighbor subconsciously entered your husband while you two slept in bed together and forced him to start cheating.

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

:conceitedsideeye:

You want the good news first?:yesindeedfamily:

or the bad news? :letmesee:

 

[Hiphoplives4eva]

fukk the bytch a few more times then break up with her. She's no longer attracted to you.

Also, get in the gym you fat fukk. If your physique is on fleek, your bytch will crave no one else. Especially if you're breaking bread with her.

 

[Creasy]

What is the current state of your relationship? You say you know she won't cheat but you don't know where her head is at? What do you mean?

I said I don't know where she's headed not where her head is at rn, the current state is we good we tell each other everything and we vibing together well

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

The girl you're sleeping with is telling you that she's dreaming about sleeping with other people behind your back.

Are you a participant in her dreams or are you unaware. How graphic are the dreams and what kind of stuff is she doing/getting done to her?

Sounds like she's telling you to step up your game

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

@Big Boss

 

[cornercommission2k12]

I was going to clown, but I'll give you some real talk

A lot of times when anyone male or female is in a relationship, but dreaming heavily about the companionship or sexual encounters from others is because they are feeling inadequate and alone in the relationships they are in.

This is in fact different than just having a random sexual fantasy, that happens to everyone every once in a while, but if the dreams are back to back like that, it's saying your not making her feel sexy, or beautiful enough. She subconsciously is desiring the need for attention and she doesn't feel wanted. She might be around a male Co worker that compliments her often so now she comparing them to you and you might be showing her your attention is elsewhere but her.

Relationships are work, and even when we sometimes feel we doing the right things, sometimes you have to swallow your pride and just give the person you love what they want for a moment. Then after you make them feel secure you explain to them it's always love even when your not the most attentive.