‘My husband refuses to pay my student loans.’ I took out the loans before we were together.
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Nah, that isn't what you're doing.
When someone's playing devil's advocate, there is an understanding that what they're arguing for isn't likely, reasonable, plausible etc.
When you say shyt like "there is obviously a reason why she doesn’t work" and "she obviously got her degree with the intention of working", you're letting me that is your thoughts on the matter, not embracing a set of conditions for the sake of argument.
Don't be so spineless. If you're going to put on a cape, do it with some dignity.
sayyestothis
Free the guys
Dude a clown. It's your WIFE...NOT some random...
Pay her debts like their yours.
I treat my wife as the everything she is...dudes to quick to dismiss their wives and put shyt ahead of them. Smh
Pay her debts like their yours.
I treat my wife as the everything she is...dudes to quick to dismiss their wives and put shyt ahead of them. Smh
RadaMillz
Veteran
I learned a valuable lesson from my homies relationship, they were together for 5 years
He basically paid the full rent and stayed up nights helping her with her papers and exams
she broke up with him a semester away from her graduation
his still hurting
Women are cutthroat, don't let their small stature and beauty fool you for a second. Shout out to the breh that refuse to pay her student loans
He basically paid the full rent and stayed up nights helping her with her papers and exams
she broke up with him a semester away from her graduation
his still hurting
Women are cutthroat, don't let their small stature and beauty fool you for a second. Shout out to the breh that refuse to pay her student loans
Peter Popoff
PROTECT YA NECK!! ❤️🖤💚 🙏🏽
Damn, you's a bytch. My condolences.
Yeah but has she actually asked you to? And if she did, what would you say then?I'm married, my wife has student loans and I do not.
I will not and have not put a dime towards her student loans
I learned a valuable lesson from my homies relationship, they were together for 5 years
He basically paid the full rent and stayed up nights helping her with her papers and exams
she broke up with him a semester away from her graduation
his still hurting
Women are cutthroat, don't let their small stature and beauty fool you for a second. Shout out to the breh that refuse to pay her student loans
NEVER build a bytch up, only break them down, or keep things on a mutual/reciprocative level. Anything is else will lead to time AND money wasted.
MajesticLion
Veteran
Leave no room for doubt.
All loans? Grants? Scholarships? Full ride or partial? Academic or sport? If you're considering making that kind of step forward with her, you'd better get comfortable asking questions and getting answers you might not expect. It's a whole other person, learning about who they are is half the fun.
Of course your timing matters
I know some of you reading this will have no finesse and just unload on whoever
Go easy
sayyestothis
Free the guys
Lmao. Why yall mad that I support my wife and her debts? This is marriage. I been married for 15 years. I would put anything above her, maybe that's how we still happily married tho...yall miserable?
DamienWayne
Superstar
The entitlement 
I think this depends on their situation . If your wife goes to school all them years and you make her stay home and take care of the kids, then as a husband you should help her pay those loans . Marriage is about partnership , that is being a good partner .
My friend’s fiancée has been paying his student loans back 
That's your choice.
Dude's choice was to not pay her debt she willingly took out. That doesnt make him a clown. If a woman wants to be a stay at home wife why the the fukk is she taking out massive debt in the first place? 
This. Her debt, earning potential and work habits should have been taken into account before marrying her.